34 Shanghai, China
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My self-summary
When I logged in this website I mean wow, can't believe I'm 34 already! Aha...Panic attacking...No, not really. I think I know what I want from a relationship and just awaiting for someone who knows what he wants as well. A distracted thinker. Straightforward and laid-back. Enjoy the insightful conversations as well as the goofy jokes. Master of none. Laughing out loud in public...I may look "indifferent", let's say it is my social shell...And have you heard about song "Nobody But You" ? by Lou Reed & John Cale : "I really care a lot, although I look like I do not."

I like Heidelberg very much, then Berlin.

I have the very special experiences when I was traveling in Scandiva, it somehow changed me. I might tell you when we are close, could be an interesting topic about human nature. I love the forest in Oslo the most. I wish I could live in it as a forest guardian or something. Cool, huh~

I am evolving. I wish I could get the meaning of love and kindness in this cruel world. I am little old for dramatic scenario, yet not old enough to settle down because everyone else does. Please, dont make me feel the way about you that I feel about judging bit*ch around. Appreciate it.
What I’m doing with my life
Working in the financial service field as a non-financial professional and wondering what's wrong with me...
I’m really good at
The first things people usually notice about me
The headset lady
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Nonfiction, Sand and Foam by by Kahlil Gibran; works by Mr. WANG Xiaobo;

Movies: "Blackmail (1929) ";" Die Welle (2008)" "Witness for the Prosecution (1957)" ;Movies directed by Woody Allen or Wes Anderson; Notorious (1946); The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy (2005), Hot Fuzz (2007) Star Trek 2,6,11; Cashback (2004);Nunta Muta (2008); Lawrence of Arabia (1962); La vita è bella (1997);

Shows: Daily Show; 30 Rock, Modern Family, The Big Bang Theory, Breaking Bad,House of Cards,The IT Crowd;

Music: Brit-pop, post rock, OST, Electronical (Daft Punk, Moby, Trentemøller, MGMT) Smith, The; Cure, The; Classical: Some of the Piano and cello pieces ; Food: Chinese cuisine; Sushi, Tiramisu^n
The six things I could never do without
Nice films
Good laughs
I spend a lot of time thinking about
This question makes me think....I'm actually a bit over-thinking.
On a typical Friday night I am
At a live music concert, at home with a Wes Anderson film, gym sometimes.
You should message me if
I don't mean to be rude, but seriously, stop spamming short msg such as "hi", or "how are you".

You're a bit of nerdy. Talking with substances. A sense of good humor is greatly appreciated!

A patient guy looking for non-commited relationship --- Single guys only please.