34North Tonawanda, United States
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My self-summary
Well for starters, My name is Tara. I am a 32 year old college graduate with my BA in Psychology and a Masters in Applied Developmental Psychology with a concentration in Child Life. I am a very determined person. I want to achieve many things in life, and hope I get there!

I have many interests. I love sports. I cheer for my hometown teams of course. I am also an animal lover. I would like to say I would try anything. I would love to go sky diving, bungee jumping, and race car driving. I think that would be the biggest thrill, not sure if I could do it though! In the past I have gone white water rafting down the Hudson/Indian river, and bob sledding down the Lake Placid Olympic track. I just like to have fun and enjoy what I can while I can. I am a pretty easy going girl. Love to be spontaneous, travel, try new things and just be me. Looking for my life partner to join me in the fun and activities.

This is my philosophy…..Live your life for all she wrote. Do not over think the little things and do not look back. Make sure you are the ruler of your kingdom and never take things at face value. Question why you do things and question those who question you. Most importantly, look for a man who will love you for who you are. Make sure not to let him change you and do not expect him to change. It is the little differences that we should cherish in the world. You get hurt many times in life but you cannot let that get to you. Ignorance is bliss. If you get hurt once it makes you stronger. Some men are scum, which goes for women to, and some are wonderful. Make sure no man tells you what to do or how to do it. No one is worth the pain of having to be controlled or the humiliation it causes within yourself. Love the one your with and hate the ones that are assholes. Love comes along just once or not at all, the others are just heart breakers. They are trainers for the real thing. If you cannot handle the trainers you cannot handle real love so evaluate yourself and your priorities. There is always a reason that someone comes into your life and who knows what that is, it can be good and it can be bad, deal with it as it comes.
What I’m doing with my life
I currently work full time in a group home with adolescents who have autism. I work hard to play hard! I'm trying to put my degree to good use, it is not working out to well lately. So for now I do what I do. It's tough but I do it.
I’m really good at
I am good at being passionate about things I do. I am very detailed with things. If I am going to do something, it will be right the first time. If its not, than I fix it.
The first things people usually notice about me
my eyes.... I have long eyelashes and people always compliment me on them. I would also say my personality and passion about certain things
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I listen to all kinds of music.. rap, r N b, rock, hip hop, reggaeton, salsa, oldies, no country (only a few songs) or classical.

I like all kinds of movies. Cry baby is my favorite though. I also love Beaches, con air, Erin Brockovich, 10 things I hate about you, Tommy boy, and many others. I love Johnny Depp, Drew Berrymore, Cage, Reese Witherspoon, Julia Roberts and many more. Snuggling to a movie is the best.
Six things I could never do without
hmmm good question. Well for right now i would say the biggest thing I cannot live without is my parents/family. My friends are a second. Than i guess i would be a little materialistic and say my phone, car, and computer.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
my life and how its not complete. Feeling like I am so behind. Seems like everyone I know has kids, married, or both. Getting engaged. Just waiting for my ship to roll on in and it seems to be taking forever
On a typical Friday night I am
Well now that I work tha mornings instead of the 3-11 shifting have more free time to explore. I'm up for anything
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I may not be the skinniest, prettiest, tallest, most fashionable girl on the block but I have a heart of gold that people pass on cause I'm not the normal physical type of girl. I have curves, I may not want them, but I got them, and people pass on me. It's there problem, not mine.

hmmm.... I LOVE politics and when I get on this topic i can get very vocal and ticked quick.

My attitude... people will look at things and say ill wait for my man to do it.. Me on the other hand. If it needs to be done, I get it done. whether it be moving furniture (up or downstairs), lifting heavy things or doing odd things. If I want it done I am not waiting. I will do it and find my own way of getting it done lol... I need a man to say "honey i got that for you" that would be nice for a change. Im ready to let that happen

I am most scared about how my life has turned out. I'm trying to be patient with the good things to start happening but I'm running out of it :/ I'm just frustrated with all the negative things.
You should message me if
if your a down to earth kinda guy who loves to enjoy life, has a great personality, a goal setter, non possessive, and has love to give with a heart to receive. also in my age range please
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