The need for discretion is important for several reasons and I prefer someone in the same position.
I'm in pretty good shape and I've been told I'm attractive enough so as to not turn the stomaches of passerbyers. I of course can share photos before you invest more then a few paragraphs of your time.
Also I'm not an A lister so if you like me I'll never know...
A call to adventure might be good for the soul.