I am part mad scientist (well, mad engineer, technically) and part gonzo journalist. I live in Portland, OR and Vancouver, BC. It's complicated..
I am coauthor of the polyamory book More Than Two: http://amzn.to/1eFPLeZ and author of The Game Changer: http://amzn.to/1HmAqeL.
I'm the author of a very popular Web site on polyamory and another on BDSM; I write tutorials on BDSM and kinky sex; I speak at poly and BDSM functions. I have co-founded a new company that makes ultra-high-tech sex toys.
I blog. A lot. About everything from the questionable psychological issues of Peter the Great to evaluating science "news" stories in mainstream press to computer security to building brainwave-controlled vibrators to the Kurgan incursions against Canada's floating cloud-cities. I'm the creator of the Map of Human Sexuality that's been blogged about all over the place.
I'm interested in cyberpunk, photography, computers, electronics, art, nanotechnology, literature, radical life extension, and various other miscellaneous geekery. I spin fire, play Skyrim, and write erotica. I design and build high-tech sex toys, and write computer games. I'm also planning to take over the world and rule you all with an iron fist, but that's more of a long-term project. I have an irresistible affinity for small remote-controlled toy aircraft.
I am polyamorous, kinky, and transhumanist
Movies: Aliens, The Princess Bride, Memento, The Matrix, Exotica, Bladerunner, Dark City.
Music: Most of what I listen to these days is goth/industrial, EBM, or neo-folk.
Food: Everything I know about cooking would fit on the white space of a postage stamp. If the nearest fast-food place sells it, I probably eat it.