I seek people that are open to the possibility of a connection. I do not like limits or defined relationships. If you have already labeled what I can or can not be to you just move on, I am not into that. I want things to evolve naturally into whatever they wish to be.
There are very few things I value higher then happiness and love. I am a passionate person in everything I do, and I have never been one to only put part of myself into something; it is all or nothing. And maybe that is why poly works so well for me, I have the capacity and the need to be with each person 100%.
I am a marriage of logic and creativity, spontaneity and planning, giving and independence. I am not afraid to speak my mind, or be brutally honest. I like to think I am witty and funny and most people think I am "real" (whatever that means). I say what I am thinking and sometimes it can come out a little tactless. I am extremely sarcastic. But I am also a compassionate person and if I care about you there is nothing I wouldn't do for you.
I am good with people, they find me fun and charming. I am outgoing and easy to talk to. I am told "I speak guy very well". I don't believe in playing games, or having drama in my life. But technically in the end I am an introvert.
And I am told I have pretty eyes
important to me. I value people who can carry on an intelligent
conversation. I find the marriage of science and art fascinating.
How paint works, dye, etc. If there is a chemical process behind
something I probably know a little something about it.
I like funny movies and shows. Not a huge fan of romantic comedies,
I have never even seen The Notebook and I have no desire to.
I love live theatre, to me its better then any tv show or movie.
The emotional arch that an audience can feel during a play is like
a communion for the soul.
I listen to punk, and alternative, nothing to heavy, and if I can't
understand the lyrics I usually don't like it
My sense of humor
The internet (yes its shallow but whatever)
Please DO NOT send a message to me if you can't be bothered to actually write a real message that I can respond to. "Hey how are you?" is not really a conversation starter. I do small talk all day every day at work I would rather just get to the meat of it. Man up, have some balls, send me a message that compels me to reply. And please don't message me for sex.