tarnished75
37 Fulford Harbour, Canada
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My self-summary
Updated October 10, 2016

I am in a loving relationship with my lovely partner SterlingSmiles. We are both bisexual and looking to explore together. We are looking for people with whom we can develope a friendship and possibly an ethically non-monogamous relationship.

I am not overly exciting but apparently I am sweet and funny. My humor is very Monty Pythonesque and I can be super silly and not very serious when I am comfortable

I am an introvert, though quite often when people meet me for the the first time they don't realize I am, as I tend to jabber. I like my alone time and do not thrive when there are hoards of people around, but I do pretty well in small groups.

I am a handy person to have around, and can do just about anything though not always well.

I love to make friends and really enjoy being around my close friends though I do not have a lot of them.

I don't judge people for the things they have done, though I judge them on what they do currently if it affects other people adversely.

I suffer from anxiety but have it pretty well under control barring a lot of loud noises and chaos, thanks to medication and diet.
What I’m doing with my life
Working hard to get my business up and running. Looking after my adorable dog Roscoe. Spending time with my girlfriend and even going out dancing.
I’m really good at
I am not really good at anything other than being a kind person. I suppose I am also really good at being able to do just about anything as I am a real jack of all trades master of none.
The first things people usually notice about me
Hmm, I think the first people notice about me is my openness and willingness to talk about anything. Even the rather inappropriate.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Favorite books: Deeds of Paksenarrion, The Sword of Truth, The Lord of the Rings, The Belgariad, Ender's Game.

Movies: The Island, The Royal Tenenbaums, Tora Tora Tora

Shows: Buffy the Vampire Slayer, BBC Planet Earth, Dark Matter, Archer.

Music: I really have drifted away from music on my own but don't mind it as long as the volume isn't high.

Food: Chinese, love Dim Sum. Also fell in love with the Taco truck on Salt Spring. Cheese
The six things I could never do without
Friends
Family
Food
Shelter
My lovely girlfriend
My meds
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Improvements to taxation and politics to make things fairer, a pipe dream though.

Sex, lol, but I think that is pretty normal

My friends and how they are doing. I tend to be a bit of a mother hen.

Work, as being self employed fills a lot of time with many interesting challenges.
On a typical Friday night I am
I am pretty boring and stay home maybe baking something and watching some TV. Or playing a computer game or two.
Or having sex ;)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I lost my virginity at 32 at a swingers club. Or maybe I am on anxiety medication.

Really I will share just about anything, lol. I don't see any point in keeping things private that do not affect my personal safety.
You should message me if
If you want to make friends with a decent person, who you can talk to about anything without being judged for it.

If I seem interesting and you would like to learn more about me or about anxiety and how to deal with it.

Or if you are that rare person or persons who want to for a long term polyamorous relationship.

Or desire to explore the possibility of ethically non monogamy.
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