tarnished75
37 Fulford Harbour, Canada
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My self-summary
Ok time to improve this profile a little.
A self summary hmm not easy.

I am a reasonably decent guy who is perhaps overly compassionate, i.e. I can be a real mother hen, lol. I like honesty and openness kinda to the point where I say what I am thinking or feeling even when maybe I shouldn't. Oddly enough I like people who do the same because I like to know what is going on.

I am not exciting by any means as I will most often be found at home or at work, but I have been working on that and get out of the house far more than I used to. Which has been rather fun as I have met lots of new people.

I am an introvert though quite often when people meet me for the the first time they don't realize I am. I like my alone time and do not thrive when there are hoards of people around.

I am a bit of a geek, and can do just about anything though not always that well.

I love to make friends and really enjoy being around my close friends which I do not have a lot of.

I found that my preferences is more Poly-amourous than monogamous, but a desire to start a family makes it seem much less important and monogamy seems to serve that purpose better.

I don't judge people for the things they have done, though I will judge them on what they do currently if it affects other people adversely.
What I’m doing with my life
Working hard to get my business up and running. Looking after my adorable dog Roscoe. And generally trying to make things better in my life.
I’m really good at
I am not really good at anything other than being a kind person. I suppose I am also really good at being able to do just about anything as I am a real jack of all trades master of none.
The first things people usually notice about me
Hmm, I think the first people notice about me is my openness and willingness to talk about anything.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Favorite books: Deeds of Paksenarrion, The Sword of Truth, The Lord of the Rings, The Belgariad, Ender's Game.

Movies: The Island, The Royal Tenenbaums, Tora Tora Tora

Shows: Buffy the Vampire Slayer, BBC Planet Earth and such

Music: I really have drifted away from music on my own but don't mind it as long as the volume isn't high.

Food: Chinese, love Dim Sum. Also fell in love with the Taco truck on Salt Spring.
The six things I could never do without
Friends
Family
Food
Shelter
A purpose
My meds
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Improvements to taxation and politics to make things fairer, a pipe dream though.

Sex, lol, I think that is pretty normal though.

My friends and how they are doing, me being a mother hen.

Work as being self employed fills a lot of time with many interesting challenges.
On a typical Friday night I am
I am pretty boring and stay home maybe baking something and watching some TV. Or playing a computer game or two.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I lost my virginity at 32 at a swingers club. Or maybe I am on anxiety medication.

Really I will share just about anything, lol. I don't see any point in keeping things private that do not affect my personal safety.
You should message me if
If you want to make a friend who is a very decent person, who you can talk to about anything without being judged for it.

If I seem interesting and you would like to learn more about me or about anxiety and how to deal with it.

Or if you are looking for someone to be a good friend.

Or if you are looking for a partner to build a family with.

Or if you are that rare person or persons who want to for a long term polyamorous relationship.
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