56 Tracy, United States
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My self-summary
I've been around. The chaos in my life has settled down a bit, and now I'd like to share the good parts with someone interesting and open.

I'm into sailing, photography, science, art, music, live shows, humour, books, and ideas. I think about how to be a good parent. I listen well and don't judge, and I like to dance and fix things.

I live on a big boat. Do you sail? Do you want to?
What I’m doing with my life
Sailing the Bay, starting a new business, living on a 62' cutter in Alameda and Tracy, working with scientists in Livermore, and co-parenting my kids.
I’m really good at
Listening, understanding your perspective, problem solving, being comfortable in varied situations, road trips, photography, back rubs, making sure you come first, and laughing at myself.
The first things people usually notice about me
Probably my blue eyes and my shiny head! Then they probably notice that I am easy to talk to.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Off the top of my head:
Tourettes Without Regrets
The Uptown
The Paramount
Maker Faire
Green Day
Neil Diamond
Pat Benatar
Neal Stephenson
Bruce Sterling
Octavia Butler
Piers Anthony
The Winter Soldier
Captain Ron
Fifth Element
Funny Youtube videos...
Chicken tiki masala
Pasta putanesca
Street tacos
Mu shu pork
Chef salad
The six things I could never do without
Humour, books, exploration, puzzles, touch, and bodies of water.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How the world got itself into the state it's in, and where it's going.
My kids.
How to get up on time.
The great women I know.
On a typical Friday night I am
Fridays I usually have pizza and movie night at the boat with my kids. My 4-year-old is always up by 6AM, so I have learned to turn in early (ish). I have them until Saturday evening. THEN things get wild! Might even stay up late!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Almost all my friends are women. I always use the OKC app, and not the website. Send me a message and give my pocket a buzz! Oh, and I have an unusual scar. Or two.
You should message me if
You have a sense of humor, you like yourself, and you like kissing. Friendship is as important as romance to you. You want to go sailing, ask me questions, tell me stories, chat on the phone, or meet in person for a more personal conversation!