59 Saint Paul, United States
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My self-summary
UPDATE: still there......Beard's BACK! I do like to change up my appearance now and again.

I am a fairly recent widower, married for 27 years and am looking to join life again! I crave fun; boating, biking, barbeques and enjoying good times with friends and family, and getting out doing exciting and interesting things after this long-ass winter we have endured. The profile pics are from a year or so ago, and the rest are fairly current...within the last few years, as you can see not a tremendous amount of change other than facial hair, which by the way am strongly thinking of shaving off AGAIN! LOL

I aim to get back into swimming after a long hiatus (for multiple reasons) here's a link I found which I thought inspirational as an an "experienced swimmer/racer" I have been out of the game for too damn long and need to spin up at a reasonable pace.... Enjoy!

What I’m doing with my life
Sorting things out, smoothing over some rough spots and fitting all the pieces for a new wonderful whole. Also, looking for an exciting venue to direct my creativity and energy.... suggestions?
I’m really good at
Being your best friend, lover, and confidant. Being the "Go to Guy" I have a very diverse range of experiences and knowledge and tend to work those skills to get things done and to help when others fail.

I'm pretty darn handy, from cars and bikes to homes and plumbing.... even got all the RIGHT tools to get the job done! I know how things work and if not can usually figure them out or come up with something better. I like mechanisms, flow patterns and some chemistry (a little bit anyway, can you say covalent bonds, I knew ya could) and have worked in the medical industry for most of my career.

I've been told I'm a good kisser.... which is easy as I like passionate kissing!
I'm good at massage, hot oil and stones.... I can melt your tensions away!

I have a knack for style and sensitivity to form, and yes I can work an art show or museum with the best of them! I'm good at fashion, color acute and know the where's and why's of proper dressing and can put an outfit together in a heart beat!
The first things people usually notice about me
Recently it's been that I'm tall, but usually it's my smile and laugh.... it's infectious!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
It's all good.... sooo much so much, boggles the mind doesn't it! BUT the "Graduate" with Mr. Hoffman is a classic I truly enjoy!

I LOVE food, all kinds but tend to drift towards seafood and shell fish! Love oysters.... yum! Not that freshwater fish isn't good Trout is one of the best foods on the face of the planet!
The six things I could never do without
Bikes - Moto and pedal
a nice red, Jameson or even Prairie cucumber infused Vodka (but not all at once and not to extremes either).
Sushi (rolls mostly, dragon, crunchy, California etc)
A hearty French Roast coffee.... especially on cool mornings
The sun rise breaking across the morning sky and a full moon at night - Truly special events if you can appreciate them
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The morality of the world we live in and why oh why we have turned on ourselves politically? People are in need.... hungry and hurting, why then do we posture and quibble.... why do we not help?

Also the way our lives and society's have changed, we have replaced the elders, the seekers, and the shaman, with doctors of various flavors ready to rapturously dispense pills and medication to calm our nerves and sooth our desperation.... where is love, where is conviction, the true understanding and knowledge for the situation. Don't get me wrong here, I like science and technology, it's in my field and am comfortable with it and the development that it takes..... but the polarization bothers me. These kinds of things make me wonder.
On a typical Friday night I am
searching for YOU of course ;-)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I've had a passport since I was 14, and this is a favorite song of mine....
OK the last link expired, hope this one works!

You should message me if
You like being in water, like riding bikes (both kinds) and think we could have some fun together, and you dig this vid as much as I do.... CONTACT ME, I love these guys!