54Costa Mesa, United States
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My self-summary
I just hit the random button on my CD player and what pops up but 'Love is all You Need' by the Beatles....Oh the irony..or mockery...I haven't decided which yet. Anyway, I am a Library Assitant at a County Library in Tustin Califoria and I love my job. I wish I had found it in my 20s but instead I disovered it in my 40s....Ahh Oingo Boingo just came on (I have the CD player on random) I was married and filed for divorce on my 5th anniversary..I live wih my ex and her previous ex. and the three of us are in the process of investing in realty (fixing and flipping) I am thinking of opting my life for either a reality show or a Fox sitcom. Oddly enough it works and we are all friends.
I am happy hanging out with friends or by myself. I love reading, movies, getting out in Nature or walking a beach. I have always been in good shape but since I have taken a more sedentary job I have grown a bit in the middle and I now have to work on it. I have been told by my supervisors in evaluations that I have a razor sharp wit and that in my position it may prevent me from becoming management but my friends and family seem to appreciate it so I may have to give up management as a hobby. I am looking for someone with wit and humor and an appreciation of the simple joys in life.
I am not pretentious and I love to skewer those who are. I will never run out of material in The O.C. (God I hate that abbreviation!) mainly because of people that love that abbreviation.
What I’m doing with my life
I am currently pursuing a Five Year Plan! Investing in my Financial Life, my Educational Life and my Personal Life (O.K. it may sound like 3 five year plans but I'm doing it all in five years). I am investing with my ex's ex in property to buy fix and flip, I am going to pursue my Master's Degree in Library Science in order to become a Librarian and I hope to fnd a woman of like mind and interests with whom to share the rest of my life. It may seem like a lot to pack into five years but I'm nearing 50 and as my siblings keep telling me, it's time I gave up my Bohemian lifestyle. RATS!
I’m really good at
Dry Humor and a Jaundiced Eye when it comes to Politics and life here in Orange County California. I also consider myself very good at attending to my lover's needs and desires. I love sex and intimacy and what gets me aroused is my partner's arousal. Sex is a waste of time in a vacuum. Without my partner's pleasurable response to my attentions I may as well be masturbating.
The first things people usually notice about me
My sense of humor.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Anything by Michener or Clavell.The Lord of the rings Trilogy. Good Science Fiction such as Dune and anything by Alfred Bester. Guilty pleasures such as Clive Cussler and Jack Higgins books. Caleb Carr, Neil Gaiman, Bruce Alexander (the Sir john fielding Series).
Movies are all over the place. The Godfather, John Carter, Constantine, Metropolis, It's a Mad Mad Mad Mad World, The Great Race, The Exorcist, Blazing Saddles, Miller's Crossing, Raising Arizona, A Fish Called Wanda, Kelly's Heroes, Scrooged, Koyanisqattsi (spelling probably lacking), Big Hand for the Little Lady, Little Big Man, Angel Heart, The Last Samurai, MI 4....and th list goes on.
I can't live without the Daily Show and just about any HBO or Showtime Series: Rome, True Blood, Dexter, The Pacific, Boardwalk Empire and many more....past and present.
My musical tastes include most everything from 30's and 40's Swing to Classic Blues and Jazz. 60's Rock to 90's Grunge. 30's and 40's Country (I have no use for today's depressing whining country music) to 80's heavy Metal ala Iron Maiden and judas Priest. Pink Floyd, Led Zeppelin and The Beatles. The Who and The Kinks and the Hollies.
I have even developed a taste for Opera.
As far as food is concerned....I'll try anything once!
I love Japanese, Mexican, Thai, Chinese, Italian, Mongolian, American, Cuban, Lebanese, Greek, Nepalese, Indian, name it.
Six things I could never do without
Love and Affection
My Cats
Good Food
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Spending time with Friends
Time alone
On a typical Friday night I am
Hanging out having a beer and dinner, Watching a movie, Planning my weekend if I worked Friday.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am an old school nerd. I love 60's T.V. like Star Trek, Mission Impossible, Wild Wild West and the Twilight Zone. I also love the Saturday morning cartoons such as Warner Bros. Bugs bunny etc, Johnny Quest and the original Scooby Doo.
You should message me if
You have an open mind, enjoy Sex, enjoy Life and believe that Love is as important as food and water.
The two of us