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My self-summary
**And I'm on the road. Currently in SLC and in need of a shower!!

Remark - Jan 2016**

Dear future love of my life:

I'm moving to Montreal with Roger -- but not before taking the long way there. Pickup road trip USA here we come.

Pack your bags - we leave Feb 24th.


I'm excruciatingly outgoing but value my alone time.

I was not born in this country.

I want to: laugh, play, create, explore.

I want to be: tender, kinky, serious, vulnerable and strong, soft, honest, authentic, and real.

Where do you fit in? You should want most of these things as well.

I've found that chemistry is best explored in person. That means I'm interested in meeting you in person and I'll have little expectations other than enjoying your company and meeting someone new. Hopefully we'll click, but most probably we won't. That's OK.

I think that smell is a good predictor of general compatibility so I'm likely going to try to get close to you and smell you. Deal with it.

While I love to play, I'm interested in something a bit more committed at this point and am very intentional about who I go out with. Finding a special person would be nice.

That being said, I'm moving to Montreal in February. Come with me?

Other than that: playful, sarcastic, pragmatic, capable, handy, awkwardly creative, autodidact, GGG, realistic, ENFJ, happy, and grounded.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm currently:

Hosting and producing a show about sex, love, and life. www.thelovedrive.com

Volunteering as a rape crisis counselor

Applying to a graduate degree in Sexology at the University of Quebec in Montreal for Fall 2016.
I’m really good at
Open and honest communication

Articulating my emotions

Naps and driving.

Figuring out how things work and fixing them.

Being self-sufficient and well prepared.

Making fun of you and me

Convincing, charming, and cajoling you to appear on my show.
The first things people usually notice about me
Grey hair, baby face.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Let it be known that I like booty bass music to dance to, eat mostly meat and veggies, enjoy netflix like a normal human, and read every night (female authors too!)
The six things I could never do without
Exercise. Modes of transportation. Love. Laughter. Sunglasses. Traveling with dog.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to be a better friend/son/brother/lover.
Connection. Community. Intimacy.
What should go in my bugout bag.
How to be honest and kind.
How you're doing.
How things work.

Things I'm newly starting to think about:

My privilege.
Daring greatly.
If polyamory works.
Not living in the city.
Loving whole heartedly.
How to be a great father.
Communicating non violently.
How to raise children properly.
Building a home in the country.
On a typical Friday night I am
Going through your mail in my cut off shorts...

But honestly probably watching a movie with my dog. He's into romcoms these days.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I haven't worn underwear or deodorant in over 5 years.

Also I don't make $1MM. Or drink.
You should message me if
You don't have or plan on having a cat(s)

You think we'd smush well together

You're not looking for a friend

You're curious how I smell

Bike ride?