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My self-summary
I'm excruciatingly outgoing but value my alone time.

I want to: laugh, play, create, explore.

I want to be: tender, kinky, serious, vulnerable and strong, soft, honest, authentic, and real.

Where do you fit in? You should want most of these things as well.

I've found that chemistry is best explored in person. That means I'm interested in meeting you in person and I'll have little expectations other than enjoying your company and meeting someone new.

Hopefully we'll click, but most probably we won't. That's OK.

I think that smell is a good predictor of general compatibility so I'm likely going to try to get close to you and smell you.

While I love to play, I'm interested in partnership and am very intentional about who I go out with. I'm looking for a special person.

Also: playful, sarcastic, pragmatic, capable, handy, awkwardly creative, autodidact, GGG, realistic, ENFJ, happy, and grounded.
What I’m doing with my life
I just moved back to Montreal after 20 years in California.

I'm currently:

Writing and making videos at www.thelovedrive.com

Hanging with Mr Roger.
I’m really good at
Open and honest communication

Articulating my emotions

Naps and driving.

Figuring out how things work and fixing them.

Being self-sufficient and well prepared.

Making fun of you and me

Convincing, charming, and cajoling you to make videos with me.
The first things people usually notice about me
Grey hair, baby face.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Let it be known that I like booty bass music to dance to, eat mostly meat and veggies, enjoy movies like a normal human, and read every night (female authors too!)
Six things I could never do without
Exercise. Wheels. Love. Laughter. Sunglasses. Traveling. Dog.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to be a better friend/son/brother/lover.
Connection. Community. Intimacy.
What should go in my bugout bag.
How to be honest and kind.
How you're doing.
How things work.

Things I'm newly starting to think about:

My privilege.
Daring greatly.
If polyamory works.
Not living in the city.
Loving whole heartedly.
How to be a great father.
Communicating non violently.
How to raise children properly.
Building a home in the country.
On a typical Friday night I am
Going through your mail in my cut off shorts...

But honestly probably watching a movie with my dog.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I haven't worn underwear or deodorant in over 5 years.

Also I don't make $1MM. Or drink.
You should message me if
You don't have or plan on having a cat(s)

You think we'd smush well together

You're not looking for a friend

You're curious how I smell

Bike ride?


The two of us