27 Fort Bragg, United States
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My self-summary
"Why is it so hard to find a soulmate?" asks psychologist Carolyn Godschild Miller in her book "Soulmates." Her answer: "Because most of us are actually searching for egomates instead. We place the most limited and unloving aspect of our minds in charge of our search for love, and then wonder why we aren't succeeding. To the degree that we identify with this false sense of self, and operate on the basis of its limited point of view, we aren't looking for someone to love so much as recruiting fellow actors to take on supporting roles in a favorite melodrama."


i am only looking for friends. friendship is true love anyway.
What I’m doing with my life
playing animal crossing,
thinking about how i'm going to be dead some day,
and then play some pokemon.

I’m really good at
being a butterfly

scrambling neurotransmitters and rewiring circuitry in fucked up mad scientist fashion

diving into the deep and exploding into ribbons (sounds a bit like sex, eh? i'm talking about pressurized submarines!) aka poetry

being honest and asking questions

having compassion for the sick&dying
The first things people usually notice about me
"is that a boy or a girl? yeah, it's a confused boy."
"are you okay?"
"i wish everyone was as happy as you!"
"do you have adhd?"
"you're so edgy and profound how can i be more like you" hah, just kidding
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Thomas Campbell, Rick Hanson, Anais Nin
Jhonen Vasquez, ee Cummings, Tom Robbins
Beckett, Sartre, Ram Dass

Caligula, Breakfast on Pluto, The Point
The Last Unicorn, Fantastic Planet, Bad Boy Bubby
Hedwig and the Angry Inch, Julien Donkey Boy, Awakenings

Check it Out, Look Around You, Adventure Time
Mister Rogers, Cosmos, Home Movies
Animal Hoarders, Intervention, Sesame Street

Placebo, Tripping Daisy, Neutral Milk Hotel
Bjork, Built to Spill, Brian Eno
Ween, Primus, Sunset Rubdown
David Bowie, Death Consciousness, A Silver Mt Zion


horseradish cheddar, mushrooms, peppers
mangoes, kava, herbs/high frequencies
The six things I could never do without
hope/other anti-fears
I spend a lot of time thinking about

how my life would be so much more interesting if i actually did things

"The most revolutionary act you can do in today's society is to be publicly happy." Patch Adams
On a typical Friday night I am
distorting time and space
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
i got arrested for being naked in someone's yard
You should message me if
you have a problem and need someone to talk to who actually cares and listens.

you give a fuck about humanity and have human decency.