I'm an ex-organizer of local bisexual groups in New York, Philly and San Francisco, and I do very occasional volunteering with the group in San Diego. I've headed the African-American alumni association of my alma mater in the past. I also help random strangers with their computer problems.
Making friends and acquaintances.
Recalling maddening bits of trivia, esp. from 70's/80's TV.
When I'm alone: my quiet intensity.
Doctor Who, Torchwood, Blake's 7, Star Trek, Stargate SG-1, Battlestar Galactica, True Blood, In the Life, Mad Men, Flight of the Conchords, Glee
Star Wars (TESB, ANH, ROTS, ROTJ, AOTC, PM), It's a Wonderful Life, West Side Story, Citizen Kane, Brokeback Mountain, The Matrix, Star Trek II: The Wrath of Khan, E.T., Beautiful Thing, The Incredibles
The Brief, Wondrous Life of Oscar Wao, Man's Search for Meaning, The Bisexual Option, The Rivals (Evert vs. Navratilova), Bud Collins' Total Tennis, Rich Dad Poor Dad, America (The Book!), The Tao of Pooh, Dreams From My Father, Pressure Is a Privilege
... you are passionate about the things you do, whether it is the quality of your work, how you play volleyball, or how you mop the floor!
... you are tolerant of other peoples lifestyles, since we ask others to be tolerant of ours.
... you love and appreciate humor in its many different forms.
... you understand that we have rights because we also have responsibilities, to ourselves and our communities.
... you understand the differences between the homosexual, bisexual, queer, and same-gender-loving orientations, or you seek to understand those differences.
... the little voice in your head is telling you to
And last but not least: ... you can go out and have a great time with one drink or less.