wanting-it-all
55 San Francisco, United States
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My self-summary
Why is it pretty much everyone that messages me is 26-35? Come on guys give it up ! I am not Mrs Robinson but you probably won't get the reference. Lol
And no one reads profiles as far as I can tell .. It's all about the visuals
I am passionate about art, architecture, cultural travel, food , music, and dance .. ..
I have been lucky to have experienced a good deal of international travel for work and for play . Europe , Asia, Southeast Asia, Middle East, Africa and Central and South America.
I love to cook, garden, hike , kayak,
both listen to and play music ,and spend time with engaging people
I feel equally at home in black tie and digging in the dirt.looking for someone who has the sort of bandwidth...

Aesthetics and a sense of grace are paramount to me , passion, kindness and respect for others pretty essential..
Someone who loves to play ,and laugh but has a strong footing and is not afraid of intimacy and emotion.
Oh but let us not forget humor, without which all is lost.

Been in long term relationships ( 10 years or more) most of my adult life so pretty new at dating? if that is what this is a preamble to ...
really don't like the on line thing and will only hang here for a couple months to see if anyone emerges.
What I’m doing with my life
engaging with things that both interest me and add value to others
I’m really good at
taking the broad view, being fair, communicating my needs and encouraging others to do the same,
showing my love and appreciation for my friends and family and doing what I say I will do.
Remaining open to experience and being spontaneous ...
telling stories,.. most of them real !!
and those around me say I am a lot of fun! pretty game for almost anything!
The first things people usually notice about me
hard to say, eye of the beholder...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
BBC, NY Times, Pico Iyer, A Mirrored Garden,Salman Rushdie,
Joseph Campbell,Chris Alexander,Javanese Court Music,The Year of Living Dangerously,Congress of the Birds,Anything writen by the Dalai Lama, Ai Wei Wei blog,Gary Snyder, Beethoven, Yoshida Brothers,
Sabou,Nustrat Fateh Ali Khan,Hamza El Din, Maroon 5,Amy McDonald,Pink,Christina Perry,Bluegrass/ Rock fusion
asian fushion food, Indian, Vietnamese, Italian, experimental
The six things I could never do without
the love of my family
aesthetic
access to nature
great friends
sensuality.. engagement of the senses
great food
playing music
singing
humor
just some good 'ole fun
I spend a lot of time thinking about
what's ultimately important
balance
self and other
all the different forms of love
architecture and world culture
why can't I remember the lyrics better?
On a typical Friday night I am
out with friends for dinner, listening to music or at my keyboard
or heading to my place in the foothills...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I want to be a professional musician when I grow up! joke
too late for that one...
You should message me if
equally engaged with your head and your heart and are open to conversation and know what you want
also I have a lot of energy and seems like i have had more luck with men in the 45-52 range
Have a full and great life not really looking for 24 7 with anyone right now too many great things I am involved with but would ultimately like to find "My Guy"
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