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My self-summary
Why does every one wear a baseball cap and sunglasses ? If you are bald and blind I would probably still like you ... lol ! I am passionate about art, architecture, cultural travel, food , music, and dance .. ..
I have been lucky to have experienced a good deal of international travel for work and for play . Europe , Asia, Southeast Asia, Middle East, Africa and Central and South America.
I love to cook, garden, hike , kayak,
both listen to and play music ,and spend time with engaging people
I feel equally at home in black tie and digging in the dirt.looking for someone who has the sort of bandwidth...

Aesthetics and a sense of grace are paramount to me , passion, kindness and respect for others pretty essential..
Someone who loves to play ,and laugh but has a strong footing and is not afraid of intimacy and emotion.
Oh but let us not forget humor, without which all is lost.

Been in long term relationships ( 10 years or more) most of my adult life so pretty new at dating? if that is what this is a preamble to ...
really don't like the on line thing and will only hang here for a couple months to see if anyone emerges.
What I’m doing with my life
engaging with things that both interest me and add value to others and welcome adventure
I’m really good at
taking the broad view, being fair, communicating my needs and encouraging others to do the same,
showing my love and appreciation for my friends and family and doing what I say I will do.
Remaining open to experience and being spontaneous ...
telling stories,.. most of them real !!
and those around me say I am a lot of fun! pretty game for almost anything!
The first things people usually notice about me
hard to say, eye of the beholder...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
BBC, NY Times, Pico Iyer, A Mirrored Garden,Salman Rushdie,
Joseph Campbell,Chris Alexander,Javanese Court Music,The Year of Living Dangerously,Congress of the Birds,Anything writen by the Dalai Lama, Ai Wei Wei blog,Gary Snyder, Beethoven, Yoshida Brothers,
Sabou,Nustrat Fateh Ali Khan,Hamza El Din, Maroon 5,Amy McDonald,Pink,Christina Perry,Bluegrass/ Rock fusion
asian fushion food, Indian, Vietnamese, Italian, experimental
Six things I could never do without
the love of my family
access to nature
great friends
sensuality.. engagement of the senses
great food
playing music
I spend a lot of time thinking about
what's ultimately important
self and other
all the different forms of love
architecture and world culture
why can't I remember the lyrics better?
On a typical Friday night I am
out with friends for dinner, listening to music or at my keyboard
or heading to my place in the foothills...
Thinking of my next adventure with you
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I want to be a professional musician when I grow up! joke
too late for that one...
You should message me if
equally engaged with your head and your heart and are open to conversation and know what you want and someone who actually reads this and does not like me because of my portrait sailing
Come on gentlemen step up
The two of us