39 Minneapolis, United States
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My self-summary
hmmmmm honest, open, logical, sarcastic and blunt, have a dry sense of humor, can be stubborn and demanding as well as sweet and accommodating. I dislike drama and value honesty.

I have lived all over the world and like what's out there. Looking forward to finding others who like exploring and are intellectually curious.
What I’m doing with my life
putting on my pants, one leg at a time, just like everyone else.
I’m really good at
asking questions. and giving exes the tools to be better people. the last 3 men I've dated have independently said that they are better people because they dated me. I'm tired of teaching, though. this time, I would like a diamond instead of a diamond in the rough...
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm not sure, it depends on the situation. If we are standing, it would probably be that I'm not so tall, although I've been told that I look taller than I am. Hair closer to god?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
have you read "the awakening" by kate chopin? one of my favorites.
The six things I could never do without
my pooches
phone + wifi
a good book
dr pepper
flip flops
I spend a lot of time thinking about
the concept of regret. this is different from a mistake. maybe a regret comes when you knew something would be a mistake and chose to proceed. I do have regrets. times when I didn't follow what my gut was warning me to avoid. times when I gave unworthy people greater trust than they deserved. hopefully, we learn from both regrets and mistakes. can't change them, so you just go forward...
On a typical Friday night I am
oh it depends. i love reading, watching a game, hanging out with my pooches, hanging out with friends, going to bed early. could be that or other things, i guess
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have no idea what "living life to the fullest" actually means. why does anyone ever write it? EVER... I mean, doesn't everyone do that on a relative scale? oh, and of course: "long walks on the beach" as if this is Florida or California. come on.

and you're welcome. I won't write "live, laugh, love" anywhere. I have heard that it is the female equivalent to the "living life to the fullest" mantra
You should message me if
you agree to never, ever start your sentence with "well, actually"....

You may proceed if you:

👍🏻 have a picture or several of yourself.

👍🏻 are located in the Twin Cities metro area.

👍🏻 are SINGLE/DIVORCED (not "filing soon" or separated, but filed/decree signed + over it).

👍🏻 are AGE APPROPRIATE. (approx 35-49)

👍🏻 are a NON-SMOKER.