34Elyria, United States
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My self-summary
I'm a rather easygoing person. I'm very open minded and only ask for honesty. I'd like to find love, but friends are always welcome too. I'm a relatively intelligent person and love having good stimulating conversations, but I can also enjoy some mindless fun too. I'm a complex person and that means I have complex interests. I can't be understood by reading a few lines in a profile because no matter what I put, there will always be more to me. My opinions change as I gain new information and my opinions may not always make sense to someone else because that person doesn't know my point of view yet, but I am always willing to share that view to anyone who is interested.
What I’m doing with my life
Just moved to Elyria and getting settled in. Working as an ICT Therapist.
I’m really good at
Listening and talking. I love having a good conversation, but I'm also good at listening to people when they have a problem. Even if I can't offer ways to help a situation, I always try to be encouraging and help get to the root of a problem. I know I'm a psych major, but don't be afraid that I'm going to psychoanalyze you. I will offer helpful advise sometimes or more often just help you sort through your options, but that's about as far as I go. I don't think knowing how Freudian your problem is will be any good lol
The first things people usually notice about me
online, my sense of humor. Offline... I don't know, meet me and tell me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I can't say I have a favorite book. Usually it's whatever I'm reading at the time. Mostly I like to read fantasy novels. I enjoy the escapism found in books and you can't get any further from reality than something that can't happen. I do watch movies and some TV, but I'm not really a huge couch potato. And for food, I love spicy foods. I'm a bit picky about my spices though. I don't want just hot, I want full of flavor. Some of my favorite foods are tacos, spicy orange chicken, beef fried rice or lo mien, 3-way chicken (love the name btw), hot sausage sandwiches, pizza with sausage, pepperoni, and green peppers, and things along those lines. I can cook from scratch, though unfortunately I haven't managed to do much by way of ethnic foods outside of authentic tacos and Italian food. I'd like to learn more, but haven't had the opportunity. If you can cook different food, let me know!
Six things I could never do without
self respect
good conversation
quiet time
I spend a lot of time thinking about
anything that pops in my head. I do a lot of thinking just plain old and my mind can be a bit random at times. I always love a line of thought that challenges my mind too. I like to get into theoretical conversations that will help me to better understand what others think and also to better understand my own thinking and opinions. One thing that I try not to dwell on though is relationships. I haven't had a lot of experience there and I'm not going to enter into a relationship that doesn't fit, but it's something that I do long for.
On a typical Friday night I am
I'm amending this to the weekend because my Fridays tend to be me coming in from work and being a bump on a log. Hanging out with friends. Usually doing something low-key like playing board games, but not always
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
To a stranger? You get what I've already given you. If you want to know more about me, then you can contact me and ask me. If it's private, that means that you don't tell people without a reason because it is none of that person's business.
You should message me if
If you want to. Been feeling rather down lately with things going on in my life, so if you think you'd like to be friends or feel like trying to add a ray of sunshine in my life, hit me up and we'll see where things go.
The two of us