55 Cape Town, South Africa
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My self-summary
Hi there. I believe it's important to have somebody that can make you laugh, somebody you can trust, somebody that, y'know, turns you on... And it's really, really important that these three people don't know each other. LOL

If you're interested in having something casual, non-serious and light-hearted, you've dropped in to the right place! What I am offering is great company, challenging intellectual discussions and closeness at times when you need it. If you need space, distance and desire freedom to roam and do your own thing, I understand and respect completely your need to be unshackled.

I live a diverse, largely unfettered life.I'm not adverse to an arrangement with someone looking for mentorship and a little help in life.
What I’m doing with my life
A hopefully healthy mix of short-term and long-term plans. Keeping my family together. Helping my fellow-man/woman. Believing in the best of others while supporting them in becoming the best they can be.
I’m really good at
Listening, chatting, communicating, debating, cycling (road & MTB), table-tennis, socialising, acting unflappable, motivating others.
The first things people usually notice about me
I look less formidable than I sound. I'm very warm and approachable. People are drawn to being in close proximity. I've also been told I am quite expressive.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Too many books to mention - I have libraries! Movies-action to get me lost in the moment - preferably LOUD. Live rock concerts. I live for my music - I have played bass guitar in a professional capacity. Food - fuel for my body, with the occasional indulgence.
The six things I could never do without
Only 6? .. okay:
1. God
2. Human contact
3. My kids
4. Intellectual stimulation
5. Intimacy
6. Living a full life with freedom
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to bring out and harness the best in people. My personal contribution to making the world better for my being here. And how to best exercise the freedoms I have in taking my mind and body as far as it will go.
On a typical Friday night I am
Looking back at how many of my goals I've achieved for the week. Doing something (or nothing) to unwind. And planning a host of weekend activities involving my preteen son.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm open-minded to a lot of weird ideas like past-lives, TM, astral travel and so on.
You should message me if
Women often go into a relationship expecting perfection. Hopefully you've grown beyond the flaky stage and have a more "real" idea of what you want in a man. I'm no prince charming. Just an ordinary messy sexy guy who would f**k you and respect you at the same time...