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My self-summary
tl;dr: intelligent, cultured doctor with a penchant for spirituality looking for a complementary partner in crime.

Confident, but not cocky. Surprising, but not unreliable. Fun, but not frivolous. The love child of Bonnie Parker and Mr. Spock. A bad boy, but a good man. Friends would describe me as charming and intelligent, responsible and centered. I love my life and am constantly working toward my goals -- whether they're expanding my business or cultivating greater humility.

I'm searching for a beautiful and confident woman who values lifelong learning, meaningful conversation, and continuous personal development. I place a premium on integrity and respect and expect my partner to do the same. The world is a wonderful place -- let's explore it together in a spirit of adventure and wonder. I have a mindset of growth and abundance. When in a relationship, I give with abandon and value women who fully give of themselves. Life's too short to settle for anything less than extraordinary.

I believe that dating should be fun and playful. Let's ditch the "interview-for-significant-other" approach and engage with each other with authenticity and spontaneity. Ultimately, I'm looking for a partner who is a total package -- attractive and sensual, intelligent and motivated, empathic and loving -- because I value those same qualities in myself. I respond to all kinds of women, but I prefer those who are comfortable with their femininity and sexuality. When committed, I show up every day with my A-game. Do the same and let's co-create a beautiful partnership. If you see yourself in this description, get in touch with me! I've been waiting to meet you.
What I’m doing with my life
Reading and writing. Teaching and listening. Waiting and walking.

I'm a health psychologist, which means I talk to people who have diseases. I also conduct research into applied mindfulness. I also also own a private tutoring company. All told, I really love to help others flourish and excel.

Spirituality is an important part of my life and I'm committed to my meditation practice. Nature grounds me and I try to get out into open spaces on the regular. Big Sur anyone?

Personal development is a priority for me. These days, I'm working to improve my Portuguese, polish my communication skills, and train for summer adventures. Having goals is an essential component of a directed and purposeful life. However, the process is where all the fun is.
I’m really good at
Parallel parking. Doing math in my head. Letting the little stuff slide.
The first things people usually notice about me
I dress well for a straight man. And I've been told my eyes are blue.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Brave New World. Pale Fire. Hard-boiled Wonderland and the End of the World. Never Let Me Go.

Russian Ark. The Royal Tenenbaums. Wizard People, Dear Reader. Children of Men.

Petite Mort (Jiri Kylian). Kagemi (Sankai Juku). Mnemonic (Theatre de Complicite). Les Miz.

The Mowgli's. Vance Joy. Mozart. Joan Baez.

Sashimi. Banh mi. Burgers. Toast.
Six things I could never do without
1. A challenge.
2. A friend.
3. A teacher.
4. A quiet place.
5. A second chance.
6. Something to look forward to.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Your brain intentionally slows down visual processing. Since light travels so much faster than sound, the audio would be out of sync otherwise.
On a typical Friday night I am
Taking you out?

Seriously, that sounds nice.
You should message me if
You are so inclined. You can talk nerdy.

Refer back to the self-summary: Are you a high value woman? Do your kindness and intelligence give your looks a run for their money? Are you consciously trying to surround yourself with quality people and to develop a relationship with a top-notch guy? You know who you are. Shoot me a message already and let's do this.

Also: if you are Hermione, minus the smugness.
The two of us