thatbluesea
31 Edmonton, Canada
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My self-summary
I could care less that you think i'm "really beautiful" Everyone is beautiful. My value doesn't come from my fragile human shell. So my response rate is ZERO to messages about my appearance.

I'm not really the most comfortable with sex so no, I'm not dtf.

I'm polyamorous & not really into monogamy. I have an amazing partner who I'm in a committed long term relationship with (we cohabitate!) So if your looking for your one and only life partner keep lookin!

I am such an introvert. I am the kind of person who desires, values and is most motivated to cultivate deep friendships with a few select people. I have a hard time being vulnerable and sharing and it can take me a looonnnggg time to feel comfortable with new people. BUT, I don't consider myself socially inept or anything. I can hold a conversation with a stranger and pass some witty banter back and forth with ease. It's just that this is generally exhausting.

I worry I might be kind of boring. I like quiet activites, I like drinking coffee in a nice cafe, I like dessert, playing games, making things with my hands. I'm pretty visual and like aesthetically pleasing spaces. I like plants and laying in the grass. I used to be all outdoorsy but I broke an ankle and my mountain/hiking partner moved away. I'd like to do more of it, there's nothing like a good view.

Other crud I like to do: go to shows, bike all the places when it's not snowing, dance dance dance (mostly in the festival scene), drink in alleys and public parks, trespass in abandoned places, walk my dog at the dog park and pet all the pups who'll let me.

I am also the most indecisive person I know. Please don't ask me to pick a restaurant. I know what I don't like but after that I'm generally so easygoing that making any kind of choice is painful. I'm also kind and sweet and try and be conscientious and thoughtful about how my behaviour impacts other people/the world. Though I am at a point in my life where I am tired of taking shit from other people and am learning to stand up for myself and my beliefs. So if I think your being a racist, misogynist, ableist, turd bag I will let you know.
What I’m doing with my life
Working a strange computer generated schedule as a RN. Obsessing about how I have no plans or direction and am watching my life slip away.
I’m really good at
Listening and watching.
I'm good at crafts and making things by hand.
Being up real high
Sleeping for long periods of time
The first things people usually notice about me
I have no idea. I would have to conduct a survey, random selection, questionnaire...

I'm kinda quiet? (only kind of though) I have blonde hair? Tattoos?

You can tell me if we ever meet in person.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
II like the worst TV. Supernatural and Bones are my non guilt inducing guilty pleasures, I like brooklyn 99 and have watched every season of Project runway.

Food: smoothies, sushi, all the dairy products. I will eat pretty much anything. I am the saviour in our house of damaged looking produce and bruised bananas.

Movies: Also don't really care that much about them but have watched many that have entertained and that i've thoroughly enjoyed. I'm bad at remembering their names. Generally I like documentaries, terrible action movies and indie films.

Music: I used to be one of those people who likes "everything except rap and country" well that was silly and exclusionary of me. My girlfriend even got me into top 40 pop music. WHO AM I ANYMORE. I mostly listen to indie pop/folk/rock and quiet sad music or sweet sweet silence. The Weakerthans will always be my favorite band.

I think my favourite book is The Phantom Tollbooth by Norton Juster. I really like kids/young adult books (Harry Potter anyone?) I can devour a good murder mystery/who dunnit easily. I like good fiction and lately have been wanting to read a good biography.
The six things I could never do without
- My Family. They rock my socks and have helped me become a self confessed awesome person.
- My incredible life partner who I love to absolute bits
- The fur babies
- Sunshine and the outside
- Long walks
- Coffee
I spend a lot of time thinking about
- How fucked up the world is and how doomed we are
- craft projects
- Adventures I could be having and places I wanna road trip to
- How beautiful nature and forests are
- Patriarchy, Feminism, Capitalism, Society
On a typical Friday night I am
There are many options: Working, at a friends house (or) party, watching netflix, at a show, cuddling with my squeeze, in bed, walking around. The days of the week have very very little meaning since I work shift work.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm not very good at this poly thing yet, but i'm learning and growing in the process
You should message me if
can think of a sweet adventure
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