I'm not really the most comfortable with sex so no, I'm not dtf.
I'm polyamorous & not really into monogamy. I have two amazing partners who I'm in a committed long term relationship with (we cohabitate!) So if your looking for your one and only life partner keep lookin!
I am such an introvert. I am the kind of person who desires, values and is most motivated to cultivate deep friendships with a few select people. I have a hard time being vulnerable and sharing and it can take me a looonnnggg time to feel comfortable with new people. BUT, I don't consider myself socially inept or anything. I can hold a conversation with a stranger and pass some witty banter back and forth with ease. It's just that this is generally exhausting.
I worry I might be kind of boring. I like quiet activites, I like drinking coffee in a nice cafe, I like dessert, playing games, making things with my hands. I'm pretty visual and like aesthetically pleasing spaces. I like plants and laying in the grass. I used to be all outdoorsy but I broke an ankle and my mountain/hiking partner moved away. I'd like to do more of it, there's nothing like a good view.
Other crud I like to do: go to shows, bike all the places when it's not snowing, dance dance dance (mostly in the festival scene), drink in alleys and public parks, trespass in abandoned places, walk my dog at the dog park and pet all the pups who'll let me.
I am also the most indecisive person I know. Please don't ask me to pick a restaurant. I know what I don't like but after that I'm generally so easygoing that making any kind of choice is painful. I'm also kind and sweet and try and be conscientious and thoughtful about how my behaviour impacts other people/the world. Though I am at a point in my life where I am tired of taking shit from other people and am learning to stand up for myself and my beliefs. So if I think your being a racist, misogynist, ableist, turd bag I will let you know.
I'm good at crafts and making things by hand.
Being up real high
Sleeping for long periods of time
I'm kinda quiet? (only kind of though) I have blonde hair? Tattoos?
You can tell me if we ever meet in person.
Food: smoothies, sushi, all the dairy products. I will eat pretty much anything. I am the saviour in our house of damaged looking produce and bruised bananas.
Movies: Also don't really care that much about them but have watched many that have entertained and that i've thoroughly enjoyed. I'm bad at remembering their names. Generally I like documentaries, terrible action movies and indie films.
Music: I used to be one of those people who likes "everything except rap and country" well that was silly and exclusionary of me. My girlfriend even got me into top 40 pop music. WHO AM I ANYMORE. I mostly listen to indie pop/folk/rock and quiet sad music or sweet sweet silence. The Weakerthans will always be my favorite band.
I think my favourite book is The Phantom Tollbooth by Norton Juster. I really like kids/young adult books (Harry Potter anyone?) I can devour a good murder mystery/who dunnit easily. I like good fiction and lately have been wanting to read a good biography.
- My two incredible life partners
- The fur babies
- Sunshine and the outside
- Long walks
- craft projects
- Adventures I could be having and places I wanna road trip to
- How beautiful nature and forests are
- Patriarchy, Feminism, Capitalism, Society