thatmax
29Ashland, United States
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My self-summary
I'm that quiet guy off the side, a neutral expression, looking pensive and calm. Then I'm easy to smile, and I look into your eyes from a distance and look right through you, to who you really are. And in that moment I feel delight at the sight, and then when I feel your heart skip a beat, a slight grin forms, and sometimes I'll say something funny, sometimes I'll say something interesting, one of the many things that occupy my mind and attention and activate my passion, or I'll just look at you, even though my eyes might not point in your direction
What I’m doing with my life
Producer, musician, Business Man, aspiring Film Maker, poet, and philanthropist

My home base is in Ashland OR, but I'm also going to be starting to work in LA, Portland, and NYC soon, getting involved with a bunch of different projects that have been in the works
I’m really good at
Everything. I'm even good at being humble–because while it's pretty much objectively true that I've been good at everything I've ever tried, me writing that on a dating profile makes my cheeks ruddy with embarrassment. I don't exactly people see of me, but when I look in the mirror I see a hot mess, all lumps and bumps, with nowhere to go. I think everyone is beautiful, but the thing I have to work hardest on, my greatest challenge, is to think I'm beautiful, too
The first things people usually notice about me
My eyes. Grey piercing mirrors, that change color with emotion and ambient light. I look softly, but intently, with sparkling clarity that some find disconcerting, but many find delightful

Though a lot of people don't make eye contact at all. So they just see a quiet mass of hair off in the corner attached to still, but serene, visage. And then they probably forget that I even exist
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books-Harry Potter, Bible, Cat's Cradle, Brother's Karamazov, VALIS, Hyperion, and on and on

Movies-Back to the Future–watched that billions of times when I was young-, Breathless, the Matrix, Thor, Star Wars Return of the Jedi, Lord of the Rings return of the King, Seven Samurai, Princess Mononoke (I'm a movie maker so this list could be very long)

Shows-Westworld, Game of Thrones (obvs), ESPN FC, Real Time with Bill Marr, and RICKETY RICKETY RICK AND MORTY!!!

Music-Fever Ray, Grimes, Courtney Barnett, Arcade Fire, the Strokes, Spoon, the Postal Service, Kendrick Lamar, Taylor Swift ('cause she's my home girl), Dan Deacon, Interpol, Bombay Bicycle Club, Of Montreal, Everything Good and Some Things That Are Bad, But Still Fun to Listen To

Food-I'll do a top 10 for this one

1. Chinese
2. Tacos y burritos
3. Pizza
4. Sushi
5. Mediteranean Mezza
6. Cheeseburger
7. Thai Food
8. Delicious, slow cooked, meats
9. Ice Cream
10. Whatever I'm craving that day
Six things I could never do without
I only need tw things. My life and my freedom. The rest I take care of for myself

But the other four would be:

1. A warm, cozy bed within four walls to come home to 2. A musical instrument 3. My faith in god, love, truth, and hope 4. My friends
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Everything. And nothing (if things are going well)
On a typical Friday night I am
I don't have a, "typical" any night. Life's an adventure if you let it be

And I let it be. Always
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Privacy? I'm an open book. For better or worse, what you see is what you get
You should message me if
You're interested in having a conversation. I love having good conversations with lovely, intelligent women. Sometimes it's hard irl, because most beautiful women assume I want something from them when I come up to talk to them. But what I really want is connection. And maybe to feel a little better about myself when I'm able to make a gorgeous young lady light up with a grin
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