theBookSquare
29 Milwaukee, United States
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My self-summary
WILD nights! Wild nights!
Were I with thee,
Wild nights should be
Our luxury!

Futile the winds
To a heart in port,—
Done with the compass,
Done with the chart.

Rowing in Eden!
Ah! the sea!
Might I but moor
To-night in thee!

-Dickinson

I am an avid reader, and it doesn't matter if you are because I will probably end up reading to you.
What I’m doing with my life
Driving fast
Being the boss.
Being the leash and not the dog.
Worrying about myself first.
Making it alright.
Never hurrying and never worrying.
Taking back the power.
And other phrases that my mom and the Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles raised me on.
I’m really good at
Taking pleasure in sensory events- the right song can put me into a mild state of euphoria.
The first things people usually notice about me
Supa fem with the mind of a dirty old man.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Chronically and obsessively- Emily Dickinson, Pablo Neruda, Maya Angelou and Jonathan Franzen

Currently: Beach House now and forever.

As to the digital arts- I enjoy this on a more individual basis. I have a very teenager-y response to watching tv with someone I am interested in (read into it- I dare you)
The six things I could never do without
intelligence
shampoo
silence
music
flirting
order
wit
I spend a lot of time thinking about
how much more interesting lesbians are than straight people, how to make a connection about what I am having a conversation about and an article from NPR, a book that I am reading, is she gay? what to cook, learning to sail, getting my PhD, how to garden year round, how to create a chevron coffee table, something inappropriate, new yoga positions, what shampoo will possibly replace aveda's sap moss shampoo- serious crisis from five years ago that is still happening
On a typical Friday night I am
Why Friday? You want to know how cool I am, because that's when all the cool cats go out? Ask me about Sunday. Or a once a month on Wednesday. I'll blow your gourd on that day. But Friday? I am bored just thinking about a Friday.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I wish to be the female Robert Plant
You should message me if
So, full disclosure, I have a child, but I am not looking for another parent- I have that covered. I am good by myself for the most part and not looking for anything beyond the casual, however, it would be nice to have someone to share experiences with from time to time.

I don't have a ton of time and am not super fond of dating apps, social media or texting. I live for personal interaction. I say all the words all of the time.

I have been shamed in my lifetime, I have been hurt and gaslit and I have walls around certain parts of myself that protect me. I am a confident, proud and feminine individual and if you can handle that I would gladly like to spend time with you.
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