31 Santa Rosa, United States
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My self-summary
So if you like me, send me a message because i dont have A list.

Im a total goof ball that wants everyone to laugh and be happy. I tell stupid jokes and am very sarcastic.

I also sometimes have a sick sense of humor as I work as an EMT. Humor is my escape and my weapon to deal with everything that life throws at me.

I am not looking for anything in particular right now. I am kind of just see what happens and seeing who I can meet. Im not really looking for a one night hookup... mainly friends and possibly a date here and there.

I am currently in an open relationship so if that bothers you then... I understand but im also looking for friends too so meh.
What I’m doing with my life
I just moved to Santa Rosa to take a job as an EMT and work toward my ultimate goal of learning and working in a field that I love. I enjoy helping people, it actually makes me feel good.
I am hoping to get into the paramedic program soon or even roll the dice and try to get into a nursing program.
I’m really good at
Reading people if I am not invested in the situation. I used to work as a bouncer and in security so that coupled with the fact that my current job is doing nothing but assessing people and recording my findings, I am pretty good at reading people.
The one caveat is that if I am at all interested in them or want to pursue something beyond just saying hello, I pretty much turn into a complete idiot. So if I am talking to you and I seem like I am a complete imbecile, I probably am or I really like you. Either way it can be entertaining.
The first things people usually notice about me
Generally my gingerness, my build and then my dimples. Im a big dude and I am hard to miss. I have wide shoulders and I will never wear skinny jeans. Im sorry ladies, Im not a hipster, never will be. But I look amazing in a kilt :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Hey, this looks like an awesome conversation topic. Feel free to ask me. I will say I like game of thrones and star wars...... not limited to those two but ask away... I love fantasy and sci-fi. I also love history and science. Go figure.
The six things I could never do without
Books to enjoy, stuff to learn, friends to share life with, adventure, air and water :) oh yeah and sleep... I love sleep when I can get it.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
A lot of different things. My mind is always puzzling through something. However, most recently I am on a self improvement kick.... i finally quit smoking!!!!! yay!!!!!! I also am quasi vegetarian now. I still like a steak every once in a while but I do like eating healthy. Gots to lose the gut and be a sexeh ginger not a "deaaaaad sexeh" fat bastard. If you did not get the reference then well ask me about it.
On a typical Friday night I am
Working but somehow still being awesome!!!!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I dont actually know everything. If it seems like I am a know it all it is probably because I grew up around intellectual giants and was held to a very high standard. Feel free to tell me to shut up because I understand, I really do. I probably offer too many "tips" because I really just want to help. Im still working on that fine balance between know-it-all and the guy who you want to ask because he knows a lot.
You should message me if
You are intelligent and can talk about things other than fashion or the latest music craze. I dont care if you CAN talk about that just dont want that to be the only thing :)
Also, if you want to meet a sweet guy who is not at all full of himself (ok maybe a little bit but its self confidence not cockiness) and you want to have a good time (have a good time is not a euphemism for anything... it is just what it says, laughing and general enjoyment)