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My self-summary
Women love Chocolate, or so I'm's an aphrodisiac!

Looking for a special woman to create a confectionery of warmth, energy and love combined with the spice of adventure and sustenance of a soulmate. I know she's out there somewhere. Do you complete the recipe?

What I bring to the mix:

Brown Sugar Blend: My friends consider me to be a bit of a "sweetie" and a hopeless romantic. Love of music (classical, modern pop), poetry and literature. My ethnic background is also VERY diverse. (hence the "blend")

Milk: Retaining a childlike sense wonder, optimism and creativity. I also love working with kids. :D

Lychee: I've had the opportunity to experience of exotic cultures from living abroad. Love traveling...choose a place, learn bits of the language and explore the places and people in it.

Goji berries: Love of life long learning. I am fortunate enough able to shape my career to one that I love...where I'm constantly learning new things and can work in areas I enjoy.

Walnuts and Hazelnuts: People find me driven but I have the patience and energy to see things through. I keep physically active by cycling around the city, swimming and play various sports including volleyball, soccer and badminton. Also, I've been described as a little nutty (in a good way). ;-)

Chili peppers: I'm a passionate person in pursuing my life goals, hobbies and especially romance. (I'm told I'm a great kisser too). Friends often describe me as an intense person.

Salt: People consider me exceptional conversationalist and always there to lend an ear or a shoulder to friends and family when needed. I enjoy being there for my loved ones and being helpful.

Think you can compliment my recipe with some cacao nibs, cinnamon or perhaps ginger? Drop me a line and tell me how :) 
What I’m doing with my life
I keep busy learning new things or improving old. Lots I want to accomplish. My work computer consulting requires me to always be "in school" as there is too much to know it all but I get to choose my clients and I'm never bored. I also play music and am working on new repetoire and transcriptions recently requested by family/friends. (Cook for friends as well) Also started teaching kids on weekends which is blast for me. Trying to get my Japanese from conversational to more fluent. Got an itch to revive my writing so I'm actually doing poetry that looks like it will make for good pop tunes. (I've discovered I'm not the worst composer on Earth!) I always look for opportunities to lend a hand with Knowledge/Skills I acquire which hopefully makes it all worthwhile.
I’m really good at
I've always been a Jack of Many Trades. I've managed to be reasonably skilled at a few (does one ever TRULY master something?) Here's the core of what I do best according my colleauges/friends:
* Conversation/Getting people to open up
* Music
* Poetry
* Technology stuff (I'm told my mere presence makes things work)
* Cooking
* Cycling
* Shopping (and haggling)
* Internet Research
* Improvising/Spontaneity
* Looking innocent :D
* Sales
* Inspiring confidence in others
* Lending a hand
The first things people usually notice about me
* Confident Voice (some have said musical)
* Attractive eyes
* Broad shoulders
* Tall build
* Kind face
* Animated (talkative)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Note: this is not a complete list...
Books: Lord of the Rings, Jurassic Park, Name of the Rose, The Magicians, Watchmen, Dragonlance Chronicles, Edgar Allen Poe, Tennyson, Charler Dickens
TV: Sex and the City, The West Wing, Star Trek:Voyager, Boston Legal, True Blood, Doctor Who
Theatre: Shakespere, Oscar Wilde, Noel Coward,
Movies: Ghandi, The Lives of Others, Let the Right One In, Love Actually The Legand of Baggar Vance, Blade Runner
Music:Classical, Jazz, Select Pop (Genesis, Supertramp, The Bee Gees, Simply Red, Don Mcclain), Indie (Becoming a "The Weepies" fan)
Six things I could never do without
* My Friends/Family
* Sunsets
* Books
* Music
* Musical Instruments
* Challenges
I spend a lot of time thinking about
- The meaning of life, and am I doing anything useful in it
- My new fantasy novel
- The answer to life the universe and everything is 42
On a typical Friday night I am
I could be chilling with film or good book, practicing the night away, hosting a karaoke event or chatting with good friends over a pint.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
When went to a Onsen (public bath) in Japan, the men/boys would stare at me.
You should message me if
You're looking for something completely different!
Seriously though, If you think we have a lot in common and/or find me irrisistable let me know. Private guitar concerts are a possible perk :D

If you enjoy funny, insightful or intense conversations, want to know all the good karaoke places in Toronto, or a sounding board for your inner thoughts you can message as a friend too. After all, good friend are hard to come by, so I treasure mine.
The two of us