34Township of Egg Harbor, United States
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My self-summary
I am writing this as of 10/6/14, as an update has been long overdue. The last 2 years have been a very turbulent time for me, but I think that while it was definitely a trying time I also mellowed out a great deal over those 2 years. I've learned that you can't take things too seriously and that you have to learn to appreciate the people you care about and who stick by you during those tough times because they are the ones who care the most about you.

I'm a very laid back person, and I tend to like to just go with the flow of things. I get up at 4:30 in the morning to go to work, so that means I generally don't stay up that late during the week cause the last thing I want to happen is me nodding off on my hour long drive to work and hurting myself or someone else. Friday night and Saturday night are the two nights that I can afford to stay up late with a special someone. If that doesn't appeal to anyone looking, I am very sorry about that but that's just the way things are.

Generally speaking, I'm a bit of a homebody. I very much enjoy just sitting back and seeing what I can find to watch on Netflix, but I do like to go out occasionally. I'm not the kind of guy to go hang out at bars or clubs, I'm more of the guy who wouldn't mind going to a museum or an aquarium or the zoo. I'm sure to some that sounds horribly boring, but I've always been fascinated by science and by wildlife.

I like to say I'm a bit of a geek, and that's true. I also don't think there's anything wrong with that. If I see a women walking around in an old shirt that's got a faded Batman logo from years of ownership, that woman has immediately piqued my interest just cause she has the confidence to wear that shirt without caring what other people think of her, and cause she knows Batman is awesome and can kick Superman's butt any day of the week.

Obviously there is more to talk about, but I refrain from posting everything here. Not only because there's not enough space, but also because it makes for conversation on a date. Hopefully, there are some on this site who like what I've said an may take an interest in getting to know me better. For those who don't, I do hope you find the right person who does fit your fancy.
What I’m doing with my life
Working, working and working.
I’m really good at
Cooking. I'm getting better at it all the time, and have some really good recipes in my arsenal. I consider my mother the best cook I know, and when she tells me that my meatballs (oh yeah, I'm ITALIAN baby) are better then hers, I know I'm on the right track. Also very handy with computers.
The first things people usually notice about me
My weight. Yeah, I ain't too happy about it and I'm trying to work on it.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Geek alert! Pretty much all the books I read are sci-fi books. Unless you don't count the Zombie Survival Guide as sci-fi...and yes, I have a zombie plan.

As far as movies, well I could go on for quite awhile since I love watching movies. Let's see, top personal favorites for me include The Shawshank Redemption, The Fountain, The Last Samurai, The Dark Knight, the Star Wars trilogy (the original trilogy), the LOTR trilogy, Serenity, Gladiator, all the Harry Potter films...and yes I did just say that (so sue me, I enjoy them). I really could keep going with this, but I'll stop here.

Favorite tv shows include Family Guy, House (love that show), Lost (which will be missed), Fringe, Wipeout, Battlestar Galactica, Ghost Adventures (I have no idea why, honestly!).

As far as food, I love italian food which isn't shocking consider I'm mostly italian. Also really have gotten into sushi in the last year. Also a big fan of chinese food.

Regarding music...well I generally stick in Rock. Stuff by 3 Doors Down, Alter Bridge, Shinedown, etc is what I listen to most often. I do however run an interesting gauntlet since I also love bands like Nightwish and Within Temptation which I see described as epic rock, which I didn't even knew existed as a genre. I also like to listen to soundtracks when I want to get nice and relaxed. Right now my favorite song is Cult of Personality by Living Colour. Could listen to it ten times in a row and no get tire of it.
Six things I could never do without
My family
A car
A computer
Cell phone
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Could be anything. I spend any free time at work usually thinking of stories I'd like to sit down and write. I can be a very creative thinker. Too bad I'm not much of a writer.
On a typical Friday night I am
Usually relaxing from working all week. Sometimes hanging with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
You should message me if
If I have in some way interested you and you're willing to look past my weight.
The two of us