thefancy
48 Los Angeles, United States
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My self-summary
I'm in a very happy open marriage to babayagababy.
I am a cat person.
I often leave my cell phone at home or keep it turned off: I can make plans without endless texted revisions. Besides, I think my mental health requires long periods of uninterrupted spacing out.
Music matters. I front a band. I'm always writing a new song in the back of my head.
I try to see movies in the theater. No plasma screen with surround sound can match the experience of sitting in the dark with strangers.
People think I'm younger than I am.
I shoot black and white film on an old Leica. I would rather peer through a loupe into a grainy contact sheet than flip through hundreds of images on my computer.
I enjoy old things. History interests me and I like to approach life with a little pageantry.
I used to be a contrarian but, nowadays, I keep my contrarianism on a tight leash, preferring to turn my attentions to higher interests.
I have a problem with authority figures, especially ones in uniforms. I know- boring. I'm getting over it.
I tend to overdress. I like surprises. My parties are well-attended and tend to go late into the evening.
I have spiritual interests- I read the tarot.
I have a lot of female friends but am striving to achieve gender parity in my inner circle.
I think professional sports are interesting on a sociological level and that they can be aesthetically beautiful but I don't watch them.
I'm a bike-rider.
I lived in New York for a long time. I still think it's unfair when the bars close at two.
I have a diastema. I have no tattoos or piercings but I have some interesting scars.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm starting a business, a real brick and mortar establishment where I, along with a talented crew, will make things. I'm a job-creator (but not in that self-pitying, "Atlas Shrugged", Republican kind of way).
Making and recording sounds. And songs.
I’m really good at
Analyzing dreams. Making people laugh. Riding a bike in traffic. Bedside manners.
The first things people usually notice about me
I have shape-shifter quality: people don't always recognize me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
1.) I was transfixed by Denis Johnson's "Already Dead". I also like these fiction authors: Graham Greene, Dostoyevski, Brautigan, Brett Easton Ellis, Joan Didion.
2.) "Five Easy Pieces", "The Third Man", "The Royal Tannenbaums", "Being There", "Two Lane Black Top", "Tree's Lounge"
3.) Cate Le Bon, The Beach Boys, The Kinks, The Flaming Lips, Judee Sill, Gary Numan, Nick Drake, Fleetwood Mac, Big Star, Roxy Music, The Stooges, David Bowie, Nick Cave, The Hold Steady, Elvis Presley, Serge Gainsbourg, Black Sabbath, Van Halen, the usual AOR favorites...
4.) Mexican, Thai, raw vegetables, Cafe Flore (on Sunset)...
The six things I could never do without
Fountain Pen
Notebook (National Brand Item No. 43-571)
Sunglasses
Contact lenses
Bicycle
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Why everyone else has such shockingly bad taste and terrible politics. Music. Sex and sexual politics. Not fucking up.
On a typical Friday night I am
Not taking advantage of everything Los Angeles has to offer. Like Pupusas.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I worry that living in Los Angeles is making me dumb.
You should message me if
You are a fellow genius interested in music, Eros, and renegade thought.

Don't bother to write if you can't communicate in complete sentences. If you're writing only to tell me that you're masturbating to my pictures or to give me a graphic description of your vagina, please don't waste my time.
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