thefancy
48Los Angeles, United States
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My self-summary
I am a cat person.
I turn off my cell phone sometimes. My mental health requires periods of uninterrupted spacing out.
Music matters. I front a band. I'm always writing a song.
I prefer seeing movies in the theater.
I like to approach life with a little pageantry.
I used to be a contrarian but, nowadays, I keep my contrarianism on a tight leash, preferring to turn my attentions to higher interests.
I have a problem with authority figures, especially ones in uniforms. I know- boring. I'm getting over it.
I tend to overdress. I like surprises. My parties are well-attended and tend to go late into the evening.
I have spiritual interests- I read the tarot.
I have a lot of female friends.
I think professional sports are interesting and that they can be beautiful but I don't watch them.
I'm a bike-rider by choice. No car.
I lived in New York for a long time. I still think it's unfair when the bars close at two.
I have a diastema. I have no tattoos or piercings but I have some interesting scars.
I like kink when it's employed creatively and playfully. I don't like kink when works as a formula, like an erotic recipe book.
What I’m doing with my life
I had a hobby that became a passion. That passion created a product. Then, that product inspired a business.
That's what I'm doing: nurturing and building that business. The experience is a mixed-bag. While I enjoy playing the role of driven all-American entrepreneur, I also long for the days when it was just a passion.
I'm also playing writing music and playing shows with my band, The Brunch Crowd.
Meanwhile, I'm separating from my wife and not being a hot mess about it.
I’m really good at
Analyzing dreams. Making people laugh. Riding a bike in traffic. Bedside manners. Driving a forklift.
The first things people usually notice about me
I have shape-shifter quality: people don't always recognize me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
1.) I was transfixed by Denis Johnson's "Already Dead". I also like these fiction authors: Graham Greene, Dostoyevski, Brautigan, Brett Easton Ellis, Joan Didion.
2.) "Five Easy Pieces", "The Third Man", "The Royal Tannenbaums", "Being There", "Two Lane Black Top", "Tree's Lounge"
3.) Cate Le Bon, The Beach Boys, The Kinks, The Flaming Lips, Judee Sill, Gary Numan, Nick Drake, Fleetwood Mac, Big Star, Roxy Music, The Stooges, David Bowie, Nick Cave, The Hold Steady, Elvis Presley, Serge Gainsbourg, Black Sabbath, Van Halen, the usual AOR favorites...
4.) Mexican, Thai, raw vegetables, the Josef Centeno joints.
Six things I could never do without
Fountain Pen
Notebook (National Brand Item No. 43-571)
Sunglasses
Contact lenses
Bicycle
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Why everyone else has shockingly bad taste and terrible politics.
Music.
Sex and sexual politics.
Not fucking up.
Does that person have a nose job.
On a typical Friday night I am
Not taking advantage of everything Los Angeles has to offer. Like Pupusas.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I worry that living in Los Angeles is making me dumb.
You should message me if
You are a fellow genius interested in music, Eros, and renegade thought.

Don't bother to write if you can't communicate in complete sentences. If you're writing only to tell me that you're masturbating to my pictures or to give me a graphic description of your vagina, please don't waste my time.
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