I'm a friendly, curious, cheerful, bright, disarmingly perverted, non-monogamous, childfree, vasectomized well-travelled man who likes to keep fit and eat well.
I'm lucky enough to have an incredible romantic partner who is in an ethically non-monogamous marriage with her partner of 17 years. We see each other once or twice per week. I like meeting, playing and forming relationships with others though and when I do, I'm completely present, attentive, engaged and eager to show a girl (and maybe a guy) a good time.
I'm a writer and have been for the past sixteen years. I've authored two books about sex. One is an authoritative guide on how to do it better. The other? A cautionary tale about muddling through and hoping for the best.
Here seems as good a place as any to tell you that I get a huge amount of satisfaction from facilitating the kinds of sexual scenarios that live in people's imaginations, even if I'm not intimately involved. I'm a safe pair of hands, quick to make adventure happen and slow to judge.
As a sex-columnist pride myself on being sex-positive and well informed about all aspects of sex and sexuality though I’m striving to up my game all the time.
Staying current with my close friends.
Setting the mood.
Getting people to open up and talk freely without fear of judgement.
Porchetta on ciabatta with salsa verde, garlic stuffed olives, anchovies on everything, paella, oysters, izakaya, the spicy tonkotsu ramen at Mr. Taka, sashimi, smoked salmon, gourmet pizza, street pizza, bife de chorizo with chimichurri and a bottle of Malbec, rare juicy hamburgers with blue cheese and caramelized onions, a full rack of saucy ribs with a few frosty beers.
Man, my mouth is watering. Bottom line: If it looks good enough to eat, I'll relish the opportunity to stick my face in it.
Favorite movies include After Hours, American Werewolf in London, Shaun of the Dead, 28 Days Later, Inglourious Basterds, and almost everything by Pedro Almodovar.
Music: I like Daft Punk, Talking Heads, St. Vincent, Rolling Stones, AC/DC among a great many others.
TV: Black Mirror, Broad City, Game of Thrones, High Maintenance, Peep Show, Last Week Tonight.
Passport (I have more than most people)
My robo-bidet, the Brondell 1000. (Really)
You finally want to do those things you've always thought about doing.
You want to give and receive some carnal knowledge.
You have an ass like a peach.