thekLra
32 Houston, United States
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My self-summary
Quiet extrovert
Loner
Nerdy
Eccentric
Odd
Patient
Graysexual
Snuggly
Hard working
Responsibly irresponsible
Lazyyyyyy
Cat lady
Busy body
Insomnarcolept
Dino-kin
Adorable
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I really dislike labels and reject the beloved meyers Briggs personality test. I'm often an adaptable E/I, S/N, T/F, P/J... But I'm just as capable of being an I/E, N/S, F/T, J/P. Human beings are magically undefinable.
What I’m doing with my life
Working hard (Geologist in the environmental industry), playing harder (silly parties, festivals, burning man). Living the dream. (Never married, no kids. I plan to continue this trend into the distant future/eternity)

Edit- currently unemployed, though hopefully not that much longer, because I've developed an unreasonable world of warcraft addiction. Oops.

I'm a pretty responsible adult girl child. I have a house but I also have a ball pit that I bring camping with me, so there's that.

I'm learning how to live in one place. After years of work travel, I'm just working in town now, but I'm finding that I'm not good at staying still for very long. It's fun, but disorienting sometimes. ^_^

I've been single for going on 5 years now. I don't really expect this to change, as I am at my best when I'm not in a 'relationship'. I usually have a handful of friends who I have some level of physical contact with. If this would bother you, or if you're looking for a dedicated, monogamous relationship, you should definitely look elsewhere.
I’m really good at
Almost anything that I bother to give an honest attempt at.

I'm trying to get back into some of the crafty hobbies that i kept picking up for a while, but that requires going through my garage and I'm SO LAZY when I'm not busy, so this is probably more of a someday thing.

Massages- I'm often rubbing random people's shoulders/backs/hands. My back is constantly hurting too though, so it'd be nice if I could find massage buddies or something haha.

Oh, yeah I'm also really really good at procrastination, and then getting things done under pressure. Deadlines are friends.
The first things people usually notice about me
That my hair is probably a different color or style. I've been through most of the rainbow by now.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I like music that's fun, upbeat, and puts me in a good mood. There's a lot of this across different genres. Favorites recently are Of Montreal, yelle, the orb, au revoir simone, the tuneyards, kyary pamyu pamyu. All time favorites are topped off by Cake, they might be giants, and the Beatles

If I'm watching tv, I'm probably binging on netflix, or watching cartoon network or comedy central. I love the Bob's burgers, adventure time, futurama, wilfred, and of course, the Simpsons from the long-ago-times.

My favorite food is anything I've never tried. Novelty is delicious. I do eat a lot of the same old thing a lot though. I eat a lot of super healthy foods but sometimes too much fast food. Working on getting away from that...
The six things I could never do without
Friends
Water
Blinkies
Snacks
Stimulants
Time to myself
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Finding a way to be able to continue going at max capacity without abandoning sleep altogether. (I've been running a deficit for a while)

Also the amazing communities of people (burners, tinkerers, partiers, introverts, EVERYONE) I've been running around with for a while are always on my mind. It's a beautiful thing to be a part of and watch as we all grow as individuals and as an entire generation of people who want to be active participants in this silly game of life that we all got dropped into. I'm excited to watch us all get old and wrinkly.

I spend a lot of time in my head sorting through the... eh... infinite despair(?), but also I'm eternally (but not hopelessly) optimistic... sometimes obnoxiously so.
On a typical Friday night I am
I have no typical night.... although I don't think I've turned in before sunrise on Saturday mornings in a month or two... hmmmm...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm not LOOKING for anything, and don't know what I want, but am I actually expected to know? That seems like a recipe for failed opportunities.

I'm often found in platonic little snuggle puddles with friends at parties. Yes, even if I've brought a date. If I feel judged for that, it's a major red flag and relationships don't usually last long at that point. Human contact is extremely important. I do what I want and encourage other people to do the same ^_^

I do have a certain level of chronic back pain/depression/anxiety that I deal with on the regular. Please note that depression =/= sadness. I'm really good at dealing with these things when I'm on my own, but I'm not so good at sharing them with others, so sometimes I accidentally find myself hiding pretty deep in my little shell. I generally find my way back out again though.
You should message me if
You are already on your own fantastical voyage through life and are interested in having an adventure buddy or joining the caravan.
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