I'm well traveled, successful in my career, have lots of friends, and am happy in life. I'm driven to make positive change in the world. I'm on okcupid because I've realized it's not easy to meet someone that I want to grow old with at a bar or club. I value personality and intelligence. themindiskey = The Mind Is key.
I like Sarcasm, politically incorrect, and cheesy humor. I make friends with both shy and outgoing people. I'm down for a rager party but I'm just as comfortable playing board games. I prefer the different to the norm in everything. I live with Kitters, my cat, we split the rent but she pays the utilities. I'm ENTP.
MOVIES: Amelie, Blade Runner, BraveHeart, City of Angels, Contact, Fight Club, Forrest Gump, Hayao Miyazaki Films (Spirited away), Memento, Post-apocalyptic movies (The Road), Saving Private Ryan, Serenity, Star Trek movies, The Matrix, The Professional, The Shawshank Redemption, The Truman Show, The Usual Suspects, Zombie movies (28 days later).
TELEVISION: Avatar: The Last Airbender, Battlestar Galactica, Becker, Bob's Burgers, Breaking Bad, Cosmos, Friends, Futurama, Game of Thrones, Last Week Tonight, Rick and Morty, Silicon Valley, Star Trek: TNG & DS9, Stargate SG-1, Mythbusters, The Simpsons (early seasons), The X Files.
1- Those that feel life is like a long road. They don't need anyone to walk down the road with them, their life is complete as-is. Having a partner is just a bonus. They're satisfied living the rest of their lives alone.
2- Those that feel life is like a jigsaw puzzle. Despite the millions of other pieces out there, there's one that fits them just right. They can't see themselves being satisfied without the one piece that completes the puzzle. When they meet someone special, they feel that person is the only guy/girl in the world.
I think its unhealthy if a 1 dates a 2 long-term. I'm a 2, and if you're a 2, message me :) If you're a 1 you should only message me if you're cool with casual dating. I've gotten messages: Being ok with casual dating does not make me a 1, It's completely possible to care for someone when you know that it wouldn't work out long term.
Note: I only log in to respond to messages, continue conversations, and kill time with quickmatch. I rarely browse profiles and send the first message, but I'll respond to messages sent to me.