theotherlebowsk
41 London, United Kingdom
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My self-summary
Bloke with good job, no kids and no baggage (except actual physical baggage but there's not much of that)!!

Quietly awesome guy (not in a big headed way, I'm just good at some stuff and a nice person) seeking a slightly complicated relationship with a bossy, kinky happily non-monogamous/slutty girl... It's complex so feel free to ask...

WORD CLOUD ABOUT ME!

Nerdy tattooed film nerd movies internet music geek photographer web designer bass player grudgingly vegetarian tall shaved head kinky bearded curry fan nice guy musician doesn't drink doesn't smoke silly good listener hugger sofa buddy loyal city boy tech gadget fiend open minded rock and metal nice voice can't cook kind intelligent attentive generous not jealous

WORD CLOUD ABOUT YOU! (just a few things that would be nice to find...)

nerdy silly film geek bossy non-monogamous rock and metal tattoos and piercings smiley nice bum kinky pale intelligent independent likes scruffy blokes beard fan comfortably slutty not bonkers tech savvy geek glasses drinks cuddler petite

Not really into the whole travelling thing, (controversial, I know...). I'm sure the world's lovey but I like being comfortable and near clean drinking water.

I have an extensive TV/Video/Music collection on an HDD that you're more than welcome to rinse for all it's goodies (this is the digital equivalent of bribing you with cake...)

I like the buzz and bustle of the city and don't like to be too far out of 24hr bus country!

I enjoy the company of people that can teach me new things and that want to learn stuff from me. Smart, curious, funny/silly women are sexy women.
What I’m doing with my life
Sound Tech at a conference venue; freelance WordPress website builder/manager; musician (bass guitar); sometime photographer.
I’m really good at
Creative stuff, tech stuff, pop-culture, music, photography, web stuff.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm big with tattoos and a shaved head. Underneath the big, gruff exterior I'm actually a giant teddy bear of a human. I also have a nice voice and calm manner.
The six things I could never do without
I recently got rid of most of everything I had so now my life is essentially:

My bass guitar
My laptop (and peripherals)
A suitcase with some clothes in it
The requisite paperwork to prove I am who I say I am.

beyond that, I guess I can live without most material things but I do love

Peace and Quiet
Music
Laughter
The Internet
Curry
Movies

That's it really. :D
I spend a lot of time thinking about
music, movies, the internet, food, web design, tv shows, comedy, the universe. Why women look cute in wellies but men look frankly retarded... And why the general background smell of humanity is onions...

how frustrating it is that the non-monogamous women i like on here have primary partners already...

exactly what okcupid's algorithm uses to define someone as sloppy...
On a typical Friday night I am
Either in watching stuff online/TV, at the cinema, in a bar trying to listen to some good music. I don't drink so pubs and bars are quite boring now.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I've had a vasectomy. I put this here as both full disclosure and to separate out the women who really, truly DON'T want to have kids from those who say it and hope they can change a guy's mind later.
You should message me if
You fancy a brew and a chat sometime. If you're a geeky girl who's pale, smart, kinky, independent, bossy, likes a big bloke with tattoos that's a little scruffy around the fringes, looking to be ethically non-monagmous and want a primary parter.

Also, if you're Australian, American, East European or from Northern England then that would be very nice, sexy accents one and all. :D (and Northern doesn't include Birmingham I'm afraid, it's my sexual Kryptonite)
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