I do want to go ahead and add just to save the question, i have my own place (no parents, family, or room mates), a career (not just a job), and a truck while paying all of my own bills.
my note 2
a job, my job to be exact, I love my job
Also, if you are married, seeing someone, or can't let go of an ex or 'still in love with them', please don't waste our time. I don't want to worry if you are going to get my hopes up and go back to them and I don't want to be the one on the side. I am faithful, I should expect the same thing from you.