therealme4u
55 Lamont, United States
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My self-summary
I am a single mother and I have 3 boys whom I am very close to. They are 19, 29 and 33. My sons are successful in their chosen professions and life, and my youngest is now a student at UC Daivs. I have spent the many years being involved in child centered activities. I am still a member of the Boy Scouts and love the yearly camping trip that we take to Ventura. My son was able to obtain his Eagle Rank after much hard work on his (cough-our) part. I am also involved at my local high school as a parent adviser for the community meetings. Lets see... I am employed, that is a plus. Recently I made the decision to pursue other employment after 7 years with my previous company. It was, and still is, a scary step to take, but one that I do not regret. I also restarted college and completed my 1st class the beginning of August. Many tears were shed, but I am determined to move forward and do this for myself.

I am a friendly person and I get along with most people. I love to cook and pride myself on taking care of my family. I consider myself a positive person and do not do well with negativity. Although not exactly hourglass, I am attractive. I pride myself on my appearance during the work week and if anything comes up on the weekend. But I am a no makeup gal on free weekends. I am seeking a real guy who is not into games or one night stands, that values family as much as I do.

I am looking for a gentleman who appreciates honesty, loyalty, and kindness. I believe I possess all three of these traits and you should also. I have been single for many years, but that does not mean that I have lowered my standards. If you are seeking a "bad girl" or a party friend, you would not be interested in me. I am very cautious and careful in life. Call me safe. On the other hand, I love going to concerts, love the beach and the mountains, and my family.
What I’m doing with my life
I spent many years devoting my time to raising responsible intelligent young men. Being a mother and a role model was one of the very most important things to me. Now that that task is complete, I have focused on myself and look forward to the inner growth I expect to experience. Going back to college is so exciting, I relish it
I’m really good at
Cooking, Socializing, Budgeting, Making people feel comfortable.
The first things people usually notice about me
My naturally curly hair, I get asked all the time if it is natural.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I like indie films over Hollywood blockbusters. On the telly I watch, Breaking Bad, Dexter, The Walking Dead, and Boardwalk Empire for enjoyment. I will read almost anything. I just finished "The Pearl" by Steinbeck (What a beautiful thing 90 pages can be). Musically I am a diehard fan of Pearl Jam, I attend live Pearl Jam concerts and have since 1993 when I first saw them, I last saw them in Oakland in Nov 2013 and I was 3 rows back from the stage. Made for an amazing experience and awesome pictures. I can not wait to see them again. Food wise I am open, but I try to eat fairly healthy.
The six things I could never do without
My God, my family, laughter, my cat, food, water
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How much time I am going to spend studying for the week and how many committee meetings I have that take away from studying.
On a typical Friday night I am
When not in school, I go shopping, visit with friends, or going out to a local restaurant.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
To be "willing to admit" means that I would have to know you.
You should message me if
You are looking for a relationship that is based on honesty and being real. Life is way too short to play games. Let's meet for coffee, who knows what we might find out about each other.
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