22 Great Barrington, United States
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My self-summary
I'm a geeky queer feminist undergraduate (sophomore) out of place in my personal chronology, and a sex educator. I am far too invested in television shows and other fictions and I have days where I completely descend into misandry. I enjoy intellectual conversation and politics. I really love learning. I am 100% comfortable with the fact that I am disabled and probably going to die very young and if that intimidates you or makes you feel uncomfortable in some way I am probably not the best person to spend time with. I'm polyamorous and have three lovely partners, and while I'm not averse to the idea of meeting other people to be involved with romantically, I'm mainly looking for friends by having this profile. Although sexual friends are acceptable if you're a cool person and you ask for consent.

Oh, wait, this should be mentioned. I'm not a woman. But OKCupid makes you list a binary gender. I'm non-binary and femme. Pronouns: ze/hir.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm working on my certification as a sex educator through AASECT, while working on my B.A. in psychology and gender & sexuality studies. After I get my B.A. and start amassing professional experience in the sexual health field I am planning to pursue a MPH/MSW joint degree. I'm also currently working on a pet project, a blog focused on sex positive education and politics, and teaching myself Old English. (By which I do not mean Early Modern English or Shakespearean English.)
I’m really good at
bullshitting my way to a good first impression. Bullshitting my way through life? Maybe not the best thing to say on a dating site profile. I like to think that I have an exceptional singing voice.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm quite often wearing very bright lipstick.

Honestly, I'm not sure. Probably my loud voice.
On a typical Friday night I am
Perhaps out with friends or maybe even in with friends. Occasionally, doing homework. Or on the computer.
You should message me if
You have something interesting to say. I don't reply to most of the messages I get. Please make a message worth my time. I don't say this to be snobby, but I'm not going to reply if you just say "hey" and we're 97% enemies. Why should I?