28 Brooklyn, United States
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My self-summary
(update: i realized everything i wrote here may come off as serious--i'm not at all in person!)

i'm drawn to new (sounds and sights and places and people and tastes and thoughts). i appreciate spacey people, but i'm usually quite conscious.

i work in energy policy, and am exploring the world otherwise.
What I’m doing with my life
taking it one week at a time.

cooking, distance running, working, partying.

planning (travel/meals/running routes/parties)
I’m really good at
empathizing. comforting. adapting. baking. cooking. dancing. remembering.

i like people, and i genuinely enjoy unwrapping them. i care deeply for those close.
The first things people usually notice about me
i'm happy nearly all the time.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
books: prefer magazines/newspapers/current kinds of things: nyt / atlantic / new yorker / economist / bon appetit / food52 / seriouseats / gothamist / reddit / jezebel (guilty). as for book books, i'm just starting tim lawrence's 'love saves the day,' with 'life and death on the new york dance floor' up next.

films: the graduate, city of god, wet hot american summer, what we do in the shadows. i'm not great at movies :/

shows: i don't watch a whole lot, soz.

music: i'm big on electronic, tho not on clubs -- disco/techno/house recently, but also a fan of prog./uplifting trance / dnb / breakbeat / reggae / indie / punk / hip hop / funk / soul / folk / acoustic / classical / opera / pop.

music is really everything!

food: i cook and bake most of what i eat -- a lot of my time at home is in the kitchen. going out, i tend towards east asian and middle eastern, and nearly everything from the sea.

though far more rare for me, i prefer sunrise to sunset.
The six things I could never do without
1: music
2: outdoors
3: cinnamon
4. cast iron pan
5. numbers
6. people
I spend a lot of time thinking about
where i am, metaphorically. sometimes literally.

mostly i think about whatever i'm doing in that particular moment.
On a typical Friday night I am
dinner/drinks with friends, house party, or at a show/party proper. if i'm le tired i'll do nothing and sleep early.

or! making a batter so that saturday morning the whole apartment smells like cinnamon and magic.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
sometimes i'm not sure how i got to where i am. i suspect some is circumstantial, and this worries me on occasion.
You should message me if
you want to go discovering! the seas! and the skies! or, you know, just somewhere new.

or if you want to cook a thing.

p.s.: i don't have okc+, so i can't see who likes me -- do msg.