I'm looking for an adventure partner, I'm not looking for the status quo relationship. Meaning I have no interest in children, mine or anyone else's, or the white picket fence. I lean monogamous, but open to monogamish (google monogamish and Savage). I don't seek poly but not closed to it, depends on the people/relationship quality etc of all involved.
I'm a Jack of all trades, master of none, though oftentimes better than master of one.
I have many pursuits that fill my time.. Reading, Handyman projects, Cosplay, Martial Arts, Pets, Aquariums, Gardening, Time with Friends, gaming (table tops, board games, some computer games but not much)..I'm a Wastelander (look up Wasteland Weekend), a burner (look up Burning Man), I'm a volunteer organizer for the Full Moon Fire Jam, a Goth, a Rennie, a rusty swing dancer, a cosplayer, a gardener, and the list goes on.
What I'm not: A sports fan, I have no interest in it. I don't drink. I'm cool with you drinking, if you enjoy it, I'll support it. I can even appreciate a good beer, I prefer stouts, as well as a good drink and I'll sample something from time to time. I just don't drink. I don't get buzzed, no social lubrication happens, and then 6 - 9 drinks later, I go from sober to drunk. So no enjoyment. But with that said, even if I enjoyed drinking, I'm not a bar person, sure occasionally once in a great while maybe, but I have no interest in it. Not a family guy. I'm a great Uncle, I have the children of some dear friends that actually adopted me as their Uncle, it's touching and they are dear to me, but I've no interest in raising kids. I even made sure there could be no accidents. I think those are the major things that many would consider deal breakers, figured I'd get those out on the table up front and look to avoid wasting each others time.
I really good at being me.
If not the blue hair, or because of the blue hair, people notice I'm a bit different.
Music is all over the place. I primarily listen to Alt Rock, but I enjoy everything from Swing/Big Band Jazz to Goth Industrial/Aggro/Noise.
Adventures, we should go on adventures.