A close friend once said "Paul, you're great, you're definitely an acquired taste."
I'm definitely not for everyone. This is good, because I've a refined taste as well, and I'm sure what I consider refined is different that what you consider refined. :)
(Yes, I use emoji's).
I have plenty to bring to the table. Smart, witty, sarcastic, jack of all trades, handy, didactic, talkative, empathic, considerate, affectionate, etc. I have depth of character, it's up to you to decide how far into the deep end you wish to swim.
I'm a Jack of all trades, master of none, though oftentimes better than master of one.
I have many pursuits that fill my time.. Reading, Handyman projects, Cosplay, Martial Arts, Pets, Aquariums, Gardening, Time with Friends, gaming (table tops, board games, some computer games but not much)..I'm a Wastelander (look up Wasteland Weekend), a burner (look up Burning Man), I'm a volunteer organizer for the Full Moon Fire Jam, a Goth, a Rennie, a rusty swing dancer, a cosplayer, a gardener, and the list goes on.
What I'm not: A sports fan, I have no interest in it. Not a bar person, sure occasionally once in a great while maybe, but I have no interest in it. Not a family guy. I'm a great Uncle, I have a the children of some dear friends that actually adopted me as Uncle and as their parents to invite me over, but beyond that, I've no interest in raising kids, I even made sure there could be no accidents.I think those are the major things that many would consider deal breakers, figured I'd get those out on the table up front. There are probably others, but finding those, isn't that what dating is about?
I really good at being me.
If not the blue hair, or because of the blue hair, people notice I'm a bit different.
Music is all over the place. I primarily listen to Alt Rock, but I enjoy everything from Swing/Big Band Jazz to Goth Industrial/Aggro/Noise.
Adventures, we should go on adventures.