thisubbacultcha
44 San Francisco, United States
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My self-summary
Read this while humming to the tune of "favorite things" by Julie Andrews in Sound of Music...LCD Soundsystem (and now anything James Murphy), climbing rocks, fire pits in the backyard, the xx (and Jamie xx as a DJ), live music, anything Thom Yorke, a quality IPA or Belgian (hello Pliny and La Chouffe), looking you in the eyes (see how I just broke the fourth wall there?), Four Tet (DJ), bikes, training for a bike race, girls that bike, girls that mountain bike, crash and then get me to care for them, bike crashing myself and laying quietly with the pain before I cry like a bitch, telling you endless times about how I crashed my car off a bridge once, crashing *your* parents' wedding anniversary party drunk on rye manhattans, bitters, bitterness (not really but it sounded cool with bitters), strange sequiturs apparently, Caribou (DJ), kale (the food, not the DJ silly), Daphni (DJ aka Caribou), Pixies, Royal Tenenbaums (and anything Wes Anderson for that matter), Adidas Superstar shoes, Dirty Projectors (the band, not actual dirty projectors - that's just gross that your mind would go there), sleeping in the tea house (burning man project that now sits in the yard), almond milk (yes, I realize it not politically correct to consume almond products in a drought, but fuck it), Andrew Bird, chocolate with sea salt, chocolate with peanut butter, hell chocolate with just about anything, the little strip of skin you love to expose between your super tall boots (or socks) and skirt, being emotionally open and available for friends, Jeff Tweedy, loving that I'm in the best shape of my life at 43 (oh shit, I'm 44 now), Sam Beam, earl grey tea (iced or hot), Matthew Dear, gawking at beautiful brunettes (it's a mom thing, as Freud would say), Phantogram (huge crush and yup, she's brunette - update: now she's blonde), ink on your body, building shit, Elliott Smith when I'm feeling sad and want to really feel it, Weval (yes, even better than Bob Moses who is actually a "they", not a "him"), art, architecture, design, run-on sentences (obviously), wondering why OKC thinks I'm "less kinky" and "less love driven" (wrong), being embarrassed there's no books on my list but working on that.
I’m really good at
Eating an entire bag of chips/cookies/candy in one sitting. Also pretty good at being a smartass.
The six things I could never do without
Aside from all the shit I mentioned above? That's asking a lot, but okay: Reese's cups, Strava, Margaret Kilgallen, LCD Soundsystem (damn, I already said that one, but it's worth mentioning twice), a black felt tip pen, wit.
You should message me if
You're okay that I'm in a committed, open relationship. It doesn't mean I'm emotionally shallow and just looking for a hookup!
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