tiffisthebest
30Bensalem, United States
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My self-summary
I am a creature of habit who is infatuated with changing. I am content within my comfort zone, but I greatly enjoy novelty. I am opinionated but open minded, and indulgent but not wasteful. I am a highly logical absurdist, a hopeful realist, and a practical idealist. I'm lazily ambitious and often envious (but rarely jealous.) I'm overly trusting yet perpetually skeptical. I have high hopes and low expectations.

I've been practicing non-hierarchical polyamory for 5 years and I am not single. You should be emotionally responsible, self aware, and communicative. I'm looking for love but not commitment.
What I’m doing with my life
I play keyboard and sing back-up vocals in this fantabulous band: http://www.postwardreamband.com/

As my day (and sometimes evening) job, I work as a nurse in a residential facility for people with special needs. I've been there 7 years and I absolutely love it.

I own a house in Bensalem where I live with two partners and two cats.

I started a social group for nonmonogamous folks in/around Philly called Polydelphia a few years ago. We have online discussion and local events. I am currently in the process of handing off my responsibilities for this group, to an elected committee, as it has outgrown my abilities.
I’m really good at
communicating, procrastinating, thinking on my toes, diagnosing, winning, being uncomfortable, enjoying myself, empathizing, adjusting, memorizing poems and lyrics, remembering names at parties, pretending to pay attention, driving in the snow, being vulnerable, finding answers, singing, being cheap, getting off-task, being a real person, analyzing, coping, giving advice, giving head, being responsible, dancing, cooking, choosing my attitude, learning, scheduling, multitasking, following directions, changing

I'm really bad at
spelling, definitions, lying, paying attention, pop culture references, staying the same, being loyal, getting out of bed, monotony, commitment, confrontation, trivia, being on time, puns, packing, using new technology, saying no, being alone, throwing anything away, reading fiction, finishing projects, driving stick, buying things, keeping plants alive, cleaning up after myself, word association games
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm friendly
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love good food and I can cook. The only things I'm not into are pasta and olives.

Music: Really love the folky stuff with a ton of instruments and chorus singing. I usually listen to a lot of local music and XPN. You can never go wrong with classic rock or old school hip hop.

TV: I have or will probably watch all of: LOST, Arrested Development, Firefly, Supernatural, The Guild, Orange is the New Black, Derek, Luke Cage, Crazy Ex Girlfriend, The Magicians, The OA, West World..

Movies: I only go to the theater to see super hero flicks in 3D. Old faves include: The Princess Bride, Natural Born Killers, Harold and Maude, Love Actually, Old School, The Other Sister...I have too much nostalgia for Disney, too.

I barely read books anymore but I would love to feel obligated to read because someone lent me a book that means a lot to them (wink.) I sometimes read non-fiction that's pertinent to my lifestyle. I read a ton of stuff online. I love poetry and short stories. Childhood favorites: The Stranger, A Happy Death, Free to be You and Me, My Side of the Mountain, Six of One, The Girl With the Silver Eyes
Six things I could never do without
Other people, sensory input, change
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Food and recipes, Health, People and society, Freedom, Words, Compassion, What I'm grateful for, Plans, Memories, Empathy, Home improvement projects, Self improvement projects, Work, Art, What I want to do, What I should do, Sensations, Money, Perfection, Responsibilities, Plans and my schedule, Words, Compersion, Music/sounds/lyrics, Sex, God, Absurdity, Love, Forgiveness, Understanding, Relationships, Honesty, Awareness, Happiness, The present moment.
On a typical Friday night I am
I work every other weekend, so Fridays are a lot like every other night about half the time. The things I do for entertainment always involve other people and include but are not limited to:
Cooking and/or eating really good food
Playing and/or watching live music (and dancing)
Playing games
Watching TV/movies
Just plain old communicating
Doing outside stuff
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have PMDD/depression/anxiety and I take medication for it
You should message me if
You're comfortable talking about your feelings
You have relatively small ears (but stretched lobes are a plus)
You're in touch with your feminine side
You're a self described cat person
You're rocking a punk aesthetic
You don't possess an excessive amount of self-confidence
You think I'm too cool for you (I'm not)
You're sober/in recovery (I'm not but I have tons of respect for it)
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