I've been practicing non-hierarchical polyamory for 5 years and I am not single. You should be emotionally responsible, self aware, and communicative. I'm looking for love but not commitment.
As my day (and sometimes evening) job, I work as a nurse in a residential facility for people with special needs. I've been there 7 years and I absolutely love it.
I own a house in Bensalem where I live with two partners and two cats.
I started a social group for nonmonogamous folks in/around Philly called Polydelphia a few years ago. We have online discussion and local events. I am currently in the process of handing off my responsibilities for this group, to an elected committee, as it has outgrown my abilities.
I'm really bad at
spelling, definitions, lying, paying attention, pop culture references, staying the same, being loyal, getting out of bed, monotony, commitment, confrontation, trivia, being on time, puns, packing, using new technology, saying no, being alone, throwing anything away, reading fiction, finishing projects, driving stick, buying things, keeping plants alive, cleaning up after myself, word association games
Music: Really love the folky stuff with a ton of instruments and chorus singing. I usually listen to a lot of local music and XPN. You can never go wrong with classic rock or old school hip hop.
TV: I have or will probably watch all of: LOST, Arrested Development, Firefly, Supernatural, The Guild, Orange is the New Black, Derek, Luke Cage, Crazy Ex Girlfriend, The Magicians, The OA, West World..
Movies: I only go to the theater to see super hero flicks in 3D. Old faves include: The Princess Bride, Natural Born Killers, Harold and Maude, Love Actually, Old School, The Other Sister...I have too much nostalgia for Disney, too.
I barely read books anymore but I would love to feel obligated to read because someone lent me a book that means a lot to them (wink.) I sometimes read non-fiction that's pertinent to my lifestyle. I read a ton of stuff online. I love poetry and short stories. Childhood favorites: The Stranger, A Happy Death, Free to be You and Me, My Side of the Mountain, Six of One, The Girl With the Silver Eyes
Cooking and/or eating really good food
Playing and/or watching live music (and dancing)
Just plain old communicating
Doing outside stuff
You have relatively small ears (but stretched lobes are a plus)
You're in touch with your feminine side
You're a self described cat person
You're rocking a punk aesthetic
You don't possess an excessive amount of self-confidence
You think I'm too cool for you (I'm not)
You're sober/in recovery (I'm not but I have tons of respect for it)