44 Seattle, United States
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My self-summary
it is said that sweet and kind is boring, turbulence isn't boring and i don't want that either. To say that slow sugar is boring feels like a sticky cop out. I think sweet and kind implies caring which implies run away to most. as if smacking the ass red happens only when one doesn't give a shit. Free is fun, no strings is fun, I like fun and free and i like to smack an ass red but i want more than that the kind of more that is earned , smile by sweet smile.
i think I'm getting more cynical as time goes on. I really like being sweet and nice but no one seems to respect that. If I'm cold and aloof more women seem to be receptive. I get it but i hate it . it feels like a game i don't want to play. I think most people are too chicken shit to be real about their feeling and if they are most are into hooking up like boomerangs flung with abandon. Can you be real and sexy, serious and fun, loving kind and live and let be. I want to move with someone walk, hike , and dance I want to hear the ring of engagement like laughter, fun and activity, Doing shit that puts a smile on our face from doing, not necessarily doing it.
What I’m doing with my life
as much as i can, currently starting my own biz and was on vacation recently in switzerland and a door to door salesman sold me the best foods for health and medicine textbook i have ever seen(healthy foods George d pamplona-roger,MD)now that i can stare at a text book all of a sudden my red meat and chicken consumption has plummeted and fruit and veggie sky rocketed and i will break down the rest of this infomercial over tea or beer! lol
I am looking for a woman a sexy self confident not afraid to get her hands dirty sometime jeans sometimes dress queen with the practical sensibilities of a farmer.
I’m really good at
talking; saying as much as i can with out betraying the point like a moving bush. execept of course in an emergency then i don't say anything at at all mostly point and stare.
The first things people usually notice about me
according to my daughter its the wrinkles in the middle of my forehead and brow
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Its almost easier to say what I don't like however I try to stay away from as many fried things as possible . Going days with out meat feels like an acomplishment but I do it from time to time . I like to appreciate good food homecooked or not. japanese chinese vietnamese thai mexican peruvian morroccan Indian Swiss German French Italian.
Rumi is one of my favorite expressionists well as Alice Walker, I have always enjoyed soul inspired art and music the most. Ceu,Dinah Washington, Tool,Sade,Steel Pulse,Fat Freddy'sDrop,Perfect Circle . My book shelf is full of reference type books from the Cornel West Reader to Astrology and a German Pictodictionary
The six things I could never do without
awe: morning light (not just sun light),the smell of fresh rain
family:those people who constantly touch you
great food:that goodness so intense sharing is the only expression worthy of satisfaction.
great fun:experience that makes me
greatfullness:way too serious not to mention
I spend a lot of time thinking about
dumb shit! really I'm thinking how to be a better person how to forgive ,love and let live, being real (my favorite#what!)
I can be funny, I take too many things seriously, balance is mandatory. I think about the state of my life, my family, my circle, my towns, my countries(usa,switz),and my planet in that order on how I can be and share happiness
On a typical Friday night I am
visiting friends , or sometimes a pint at the pub
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I believe in whole milk( I don't drink a lot of milk I just think if you want milk drink milk instead of watery milk like stuff)
You should message me if
you want to do something fun like a type of dancing you haven't tried, or food, or some weird work out where you throw tires around, maybe see if we can catch someone antagonizing the crap out of a gorilla at the zoo and ducking .