62 Oakland, United States
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My self-summary
I would like a girlfriend who thinks about me a lot and smiles.

This is important: you need to be at a point where you want a boyfriend, a daily kind of interaction type of guy. Best friend and lover yada yada yada. Eventually, of course, that kind of sharing of space does not and should not happen overnight.

If we spend time together I will make you laugh. I like hugging and kissing and physical touch. You should, too.
What I’m doing with my life
I would like to find one unbelievable woman. Otherwise I am making money and spending time with my friends. I do not do yoga. Or marathons. But I have actually started to like Pilates!
I’m really good at
Talking, listening, kissing, touching.
The first things people usually notice about me
The glint in my eyes and my hair. My sharp wit.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Love Pulp Fiction and No Country for Old Men. Fan of Hesse and Doestoevsky and of most forms of Asian cuisine, the spicier the better. Prefer movies to live theater by far. I like to cook and bake pies.
The six things I could never do without
My son, my friends, sports, sunshine, good food and drink and good books. And that other thing.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to be happy
On a typical Friday night I am
Most typical would be eating at a new restaurant with a friend. I also bought a home in the lower Oakland Hills and am pretending to fix it up. I dig cuddling up in front of a good movie with a lover on a Friday night. Just seems right somehow.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have a makeshift bidet attached to one of my toilets that I am still trying to master; I spray the walls a lot.
You should message me if
You would like someone engaging and bright with whom to spend time. You like a guy that is romantic. You like to kiss a lot. You are smart. You are flawed and are okay with that, for the most part. You are thin and attractive. You should NOT message me, because we won't be a match, if: a) your purpose in being on OKC is to get a lot of attention from a lot of different men without the goal of finding someone that you want to partner with; or b) you require hundreds of text exchanges before you are willing to have a simple meet up to see if there is any chemistry. Physical attraction is a must, both ways I would posit. I am also coming to the conclusion that if there is not some physicality (even a kiss) after three dates the relationship is likely to be in the friend-zone, not the romantic partner I seek. Maybe my mind will be changed on that but for now that's how I see it.