I've been told I can be intimidating – and it just amuses me. I'm confident - not arrogant - and while I am sarcastic, I never use it for evil purposes. I'm happy, energetic, loyal, forthright, and allergic to drama. I value a smile, a good laugh, and a great sense of humor. I am established personally and in my profession - it gives me pleasure to seek out challenge and effect change.
I am, however, a sucker for dimples, chivalry, and a man who can demonstrate that kissing is NOT a lost art! I love the beach, any island destination, exploring, and being around people. I enjoy Scrabble, a good debate, and a great joke. I seek a man who is established, and has a positive outlook. I am attracted to confidence and someone who is engaging, interesting, and intelligent.
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Being in the moment
Seeing the silver lining
Food: not Indian - food should not be painful
Music: almost anything - from Etta James to Ann Wilson, not a big fan of classical ( though I appreciate it) and rap is not music
Movies: current, classic, and the old musicals - too many to name
A Beautiful Mind, It's a Wonderful Life, Singin' in the Rain, To Catch a Thief, Limitless - anything with Gene Hackman, Cary Grant, Gary Cooper, or Gene Kelly
Laughter, including sarcastic banter
2. What the hell I'm doing here?
3. What is wrong with people?!
1. Your are local to me (within 25 miles or so)
2. You are a genuine, fun-loving person
3. You aren't put off by confident and independent women
4. You seek similar things on the site
AND some of the following are true ...
1. You can make any activity fun
2, You dance
3. You'll kiss me in public