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My self-summary
Lets start with personality types.
The Jung-Myers types me as an INTJ.
The Big Five types me as extremely open to new experiences, very conscientious, highly introverted, less than agreeable, and generally very calm.

Now lets talk about things that are important to/about me.
Firstly, I am a writer. I write poetry, short stories, essays, long fiction, and occasionally an article. I am also mostly unpublished (except for a couple of poems), and still trying to establish myself in this career.
I would love to travel the world, and to experience life in many different countries.
I would also love to participate actively in humanitarian and disaster relief projects.
I enjoy playing basketball and volleyball, although an old knee injury has made this harder to participate in and I'm no longer in shape enough to play competitively.
I tend to be very passive in my relationships (all relationships from family to friendship to significant others) and aggressive in everything else. So I will not call you every ten minutes with an update on my day. (Actually, I might not call or text for several days if contact is left entirely to me, so you'll probably have to take the first step...)

Things about you:
You should have some interests that are similar to mine, but you should also be interested your own things too.
Be passionate about something creative. Anything creative!
Be upfront and never lie to me. There are many things that I couldn't care less about and there are many things that I'll forgive, but I can't stand lying and I don't read minds. If you have something to say, say it.
Take the lead because I almost never will. But remember to listen, too.
What I’m doing with my life
I am working to further my career and contacts within my desired field.
I’m really good at
Being the dumbest smart person I know.

I'm sure there are other things...
The first things people usually notice about me
My preference for black clothing.
And my hair if I leave it down.

You'll have to let me know. My physical self awareness is pretty low.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books, Food & Music: Anything and everything. Also, I like trying new things.

TV: I don't watch a lot of TV unless I'm bored.

Movies: Horrors and thrillers: Scream, I Know What You Did Last Summer, Jeepers Creepers, Jurassic Park, The Incrowd, Glass House, etc. I don't watch a lot of movies or TV so it depends on my mood at any given time.
The six things I could never do without
All types of Art and their inspiration.
Free will.
Two legs and a heart beat.

Does that count as six or three?

Actually a brain and hands help too, hopefully with opposable thumbs and all.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
All things provide inspiration, sometimes my thoughts carry me away.


Antidisestablishmentarianism (Why the heck do we need a word to say I'm against being against something?).

Descartes' lazy and idiotic conclusion of "[I think therefore I am]".

What is freedom and how does one obtain it?

The only one who knows anything is the one who knows that they know nothing.

Thus I crave the knowledge of everything while knowing that I can never know anything. All things are finite. All things change. No two things are exactly the same.

If an abstract concept can never be given form how can one obtain it and know that what they have obtained is that abstract concept which they desired and not a variation or a mission of their original desire? Do we ever want the things we have our can we only ever reach higher?

I am confounded by my thoughts.
On a typical Friday night I am


On nights I don't work, I like to go out and have a couple drinks with friends, shoot pool (very badly), explore, or relax with a good book at home. Netflix is also a popular option for when I'm feeling lazy and have run out of books.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm the scarecrow from the wizard of Oz...

And I once forgot my name...
You should message me if
You want to know more.