33Champaign, United States
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My self-summary
I'm pretty much a genderqueer nonbinary curious guy, a mad scientist, and a philanthropist all in one. I have medium length brown hair with big blue eyes. I'm 6', healthy, well educated, and like science. I’m somewhere in the middle on the gender spectrum, not too masculine or feminine, kind of a genderqueer boy. I like and respect people and am often described as analytical and very curious. I'm usually calm & easy going. I'm optimistic, idealistic, pragmatic, very intelligent, creative, pansexual, empathetic, sensitive, awkward, open minded, a good listener, polyamorous, easy to get along with, have compersion, am romantic, sensual, versatile, and have a weird sense of humor. I like to make people smile and laugh. My witty jokes may leave something to be desired. I am a good negotiator and prefer peace to war; although, I can defend and stick up for myself & others when necessary. I'm fun, and exciting.
What I’m doing with my life
Kinda trying to fit in a hostile world, find friends, help people, and enjoy life.

I graduated and I'm a Chemical Engineer.
I’m really good at
1) science
2) engineering
3) creativity and thinking outside the box
4) understanding and liking people
5) Social/interpersonal skills
6) storytelling
The first things people usually notice about me
1) intelligent
2) friendly
3) genderqueer unique
4) blue eyes
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I like to read cool science fiction books, short stories, Science News magazine, and literature about genderqueer and transgender issues.

I love alternative music, pop, techno, goth, Despatch mode, Mozart, Bjork, Brittney Spears, Indego Girls, Tori Amos, and Lady Ga Ga. le tigre. the violent femmes

I like the Big Bang Theory, science fiction, Dark Mater, Taxi Brooklyn, Extremely Loud and Incredibly Close, Before I Fall, Room in Roam, The Breakfast Club, Xena, The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo, Star Trek, Stargate Universe, Dr Who, Boys Don't Cry, The Crying Game, Dead Poet Society, Pulp Fiction, Fried Green Tomatoes, Silence of the Lambs, Billy Elliot, Basic Instinct, Better than Chocolate, and Bound. I have Netflex and Hulu.

Food: fish, mexican, Chinese, and pizza
Six things I could never do without
1) internet
2) science
3) movies
4) dancing
5) travel
6) friends and friends-with-benefits
I spend a lot of time thinking about
1) friends
2) genderqueer / androgyny
3) science,
4) inventions
5) politics
On a typical Friday night I am
Probably at a nightclub dancing, on the internet, watching something on Netflex or Hulu, checking out a college or university, or seeing a movie.
You should message me if
I’m bisexual / heteroflexible. It would be cool if you intelligent, openminded, and OK with this. I would like a girl or boy that can sometimes fit in as just one o the guys, maybe sometimes feels like a misfit, a rebel, and who thinks outside of the normal boxes. I would like a girl / guy that is different, unique, intelligent, unusual and special.

I tend to prefer girls that have some genderqueer tomboy characteristics, but also have a feminine side as well. Yes, I like girls that like to do some things that boys often like to do. Maybe we can do them together. It is a plus if you have a short boy haircut and do not use make-up. I also like tomboys, genderqueers, agenders, drag kings, boyish girls, gender benders, crossdressers, androgynous girls, soft butches, male to female transgenders (MTFs), general misfits, goth girls, feminists, nurds, liberals, and feminine girly girls as well.

I’m also attracted to female to male transgenders (FTMs), emo boys, femboys, genderqueer boys, drag queens, top boys, nurds, and goth boys. I prefer clean shaven androgynous younger guys.

Other pluses include: open minded, gender fluid, respect others, huggable, like to cuddle, sensual, bisexual, pansexual, genderfluid, sex-positive, space cadet, nurdy, feminist, creative, artistic, smart, and independent. You do not need to have all of the desired characteristics for me to like you. Love is too complicated for generalities. I am looking for a special girl / boy that is intelligent, healthy, independent, can think for herself / himself, has a personality that is not too feminine or masculine, and is unique.

You're a really cool person and you could use some new friends!

Or just message me because you find me interesting.
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