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My self-summary
It's simple, really. Well, at least I think it's simple. I want a woman who makes me want to listen. I want to forget that I have a cell phone while I'm with you. I know it's possible. It happens every time I'm with my son.

I think I lead a pretty interesting life. I teach, I travel A LOT (I freaking love it), I perform in everything from live theatre to ska and worship bands, and I run in marathons and mud runs. I like intelligent conversation and hate sitting still. I love to try new things. I'll try anything twice. If you want to SCUBA dive, sky dive, bungee jump, whatever, just let me know...I'm up for it.

I am NOT looking for someone to keep up with me. I've coached track long enough to know that if your goal is to keep up, you've already lost. I need someone to challenge me. I need the woman who is right now thinking to herself, "Yeah? Is that all you got?" Yes, you. You're the one I'm looking for. I mean that physically and intellectually. In fact, intellect attracts me as much, if not more than, physical beauty. Yes, I'm still shallow and attracted to a gorgeous face...but I need to be able to talk to the gorgeous face, as well.

Amendment: Please know the difference between "their", "there" and "they're". Sorry, to me they've become an excellent indicator of intellectual compatibility.

I recently had a couple of epiphanies. The first is that I just really enjoy life. I've never been to a bad movie and I've never had a bad date. I have just experienced movies and dates that a) I will never repeat and b) give me great conversation fodder. Life, for me, starts at fun and goes up from there. Either I'm too stupid to realize the magnitude of the situation or I've finally learned that there's just nothing worth losing sleep over. Second, I realized that I want a girl who makes me want to put my phone down. I rarely, if ever, have my phone in my hand when I have my son. I can't. I'm too afraid I'll miss something. I want a girl who makes me forget I have a phone. Is that too much to ask?
What I’m doing with my life
I teach. I act. I sing. Whatever.
I’m really good at least that's what people tell me.
Other things...but you'll have to ask.
The first things people usually notice about me
Eyes or voice
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books - Stephen King - The Gunslinger Series

Movies - Comedy - Blazing Saddles

Horror - Hellraiser

Sappy - An Officer and a Gentleman

Action - Mememto

Other - Princess Bride

Music -

To listen to - Queen, Pink Floyd, Rush, Alternative, old school punk...whatever. Not into a lot of rap. I get enough of that when I DJ.

To sing - A capella, jazz, Broadway

Foods - Spicy! No, I don't think you understand. SPICY!
Six things I could never do without
My son - don't meet him or you'll fall in love
My family
My voice
My intellect
You (Too corny?)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Random stuff like Betty Rubble's maiden name.
On a typical Friday night I am
Performing somewhere
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I worked my way through college doing strip-o-grams.
You should message me if
You feel like it. Who am I to stop you?
The two of us