54Duluth, United States
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My self-summary
I am on my second chapter of a single life. I am intelligent, fun-loving, witty. I love music, quiet evenings under starry nights and great conversations with good friends. I am looking for someone with whom to write a new chapter of this exciting book and, who knows, perhaps make it to the finale!

The most recent guy a dated is blue-collar, ex-military and looking forward to retirement. I loved sitting on my deck drinking a glass of wine (he drank beer) while we talked about our day. The thing I liked most about him was that he treated me like a queen, and he got all my jokes.

I am ashamed to say I got bored. I need mental, physical, and emotional* stimulation as well as companionship.

*by emotional stimulation, I do not mean drama; drama queens, er, kings need not apply.
What I’m doing with my life
I've always been an independent, professional person with goals. I know where I'm going in life. What I'm doing on OKCupid is looking for someone with whom I can share some fun times. Admittedly, I am ready for some one to make the decisions once in awhile!
I’m really good at
I'm really good at making people laugh, understanding people, and helping people feel good about themselves.
The first things people usually notice about me
The first thing people usually mention that they've noticed about me is either my smile or that I'm joy-filled. I am intelligent, but I am not one that must be aware at all times. I just like to have fun.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
King, Koontz, Grisham, Patterson. Thrillers, Mysteries, Juvenile Literature. Besides psychological thrillers, I'm pretty much a guy's-movie type of gal. I'm not really into chick-flicks. Comedies are always good. Yes, I loved Hang Over.
I'm thrilled by live theatre! Shakespeare, Andrew Lloyd Weber, High School plays ... anything.
All music, but I am a classic 80's gal (just take me to an 80's club and let me show you!). Love Southern rock, too. .. Heck, just take me dancing to any type of music.
I like experimenting with different genres of food: Thai, Mexican, Vietnamese, German, Japanese, Canadian (Ha!).
Six things I could never do without
books (audio, kindle, or the old fashioned kind),
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I spend a lot of time thinking about work / life balance and how to achieve it. I really would like meet someone with whom I can cultivate outside interests, or develop new skills (always wanted to go to a shooting range ... really!), and discover new things to love.
On a typical Friday night I am
Completely fried from a long week, but always ready for Margaritas with good friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I will tell you just about anything, but not leave it here posted online!
You should message me if
If you can help me figure it all out, and have some fun and adventure along the way.
The two of us