36 Springfield, United States
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My self-summary
A little about me. I put my all into whatever it is I'm doing or who I'm with. I'm a personal person, a smart worker 1st and hard when I need to be. I feel that getting to know someone is best face to face and not on a screen.

I see a lot of (rarely responds) from a lot of beautiful women and often ask myself why is that? After all, this is a dating site. Why stick your feet in the pool and then complain about being wet? Why get on a dating site and not talk to others who are there to date?

To all the women who post numerous and even all face pics, to us guys that sends up red flags.

To all the women who post pics of their kids on a dating site. As a real man (not a boy who just wants to get his private parts wet) we find that very tacky and unattractive. Really think about it, why do you have pics of your kids on a dating site? We can understand that you have kids and are even fine with that but this is not Facebook. It comes off as you throwing your kids in our face immediately and if you don't take the protection of your child serious then how do you expect us to take you serious?

And last but not least, the women who come off as sex symbols in your pics. How can you get mad at a guy for treating you how you treat yourself?

These are just the constant things I seem to run into on this site time and time again.
What I’m doing with my life
Doing what I have to do now so I can do what I want to do later.
I’m really good at
Keeping good conversation, keeping people that are around me in good spirits, been told I'm good with my hands, better with my mouth, and best with my mind.
The first things people usually notice about me
My smile. My willingness to give before I take.
The six things I could never do without
A woman! She is not my God and I do not worship her but I appreciate and value her for everything that she is that I am not. Her views and opinions to see things that I can't see. People seem to always put down material things. What good is a car if you're taking drives alone. What good is a bed if it's always cold. I can do without many things. The one true thing I refuse to go without is a queen by my side.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Life and how to improve myself. Since joining this site i think a lot about how a lot of women (because i can only view women profiles) say they are down to earth and they keep people around them laughing but when you take time out to attempt to talk to them (even if only to say hello) they rarely return a hello. A lot of people miss out on a awesome book simply because the title was not as catchy as they would have it.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Only my closest friends will ever know.
You should message me if
Your looking for a man that knows how to treat a woman. Knows how she needs communication, security (not just meaning $ but in her life/relationship) affection, passion. Not all in that order.

Or if you just simply want to meet someone new.

And if you hit the like button, say hello. I will say hello in return.