tonoya
36Sydney, Australia
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My self-summary
An adventurous free-spirit. While a great Sense of humor is certainly the strongest tenet of my character, compassion is the weakest. Laugh if you want to, but trust me, currently I'm blackmailed by two stray cats. And the truth is, that almost all my life I have described my negative attitude towards cats as profound.

Now, the worst part of this profile is probably, that you already have access to my photos, I can't claim myself as Pierce Brosnan look alike anymore, but the good news is, that you can not force me into hunchback of Notre dame category either.

I have spent my early adult life in search of a perfect non-strangulated monogamous relationship while philandering in academia.

And after earning degrees in Philosophy, Political science and Business, I put my studies to shame- paying less than required attention to a career- by going to on to follow my passion and become a writer and activist. It comes with a price-tag.

Here's the corny part: I wish to be blessed with the lady of my life and would love to feel as it written by E.E Cummings, "i carry your heart with me(i carry it in my heart)."

On a rainy day, or on Sunday's, I may quite ritualistically ask you to accompany me to our local coffee-shop with a book in hand.

I aim to inspire others to create a better planet to live and to share. If you ever have the pleasure of buying me a drink, I would really enjoy a cold Extra dry.
What I’m doing with my life
Living it- the way I want to. Doing whatever, and whenever I want to. This is the only one I'll ever have.
I’m really good at
Blasphemy. Also Listening, smiling and agreeing, then doing whatever I wanted to do anyway.
The first things people usually notice about me
Depends on who is noticing.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Farmer boy of the Little house series by Laura Ingalls Wilder. I still, every now and then, read a few pages of it. Little Almanzo, despite so many differences, reminds me of my childhood more than anyone or anything. It makes me smile remembering- three decades ago, a six year old me, almost ritualistically, ate popcorn with milk just because he loved it.

Anything by Erich Maria Remarque, he is my absolute and all time favorite. Among other favorites: God of small things, The last word, The last poem, The Satanic verses, Exile, The kite runner, Anna Karenina, The God Delusion, Waking up, The second sex, The counterfeiters, Far from the madding crowd, God is not great, The master and Margarita, The Godfather, Zealot; This is a never ending list, for good.
Recently discovered the world of fantasy and totally in love. Just- almost fanatically- read Chronicles of Siala series by Alexy Pehov, thinking- this guy has taken BS to an all time high artistic level.

Movies: So many, at least more than a hundred. Can't even remember the names of all.
Okuribito, Sommersturm, Mio fratello e figlio unico Italyanets, Les Egares, Fred Claus, Las 13 Rosas, El Orfanato, Under the Hawthorn Tree, Ganadevata, Water, La Verite si je mens, The Hunting Party, Le placard, Amelie, The dictator, Inventing the Abbotts, Weeding Crashers, Noel, The Wind That Shakes the Barley, Ae Fond Kiss, Mongol, Gloomy Sunday, Black book, Lord of the rlngs.
Six things I could never do without
Laughter & banter.
Something to read.
Controversial thoughts.
Freedom of speech.
Love & sex.
Making mistakes.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Naughty stuff.
Secularist ideas & separation of Church and State.
How things work.
Fallen friends and comrades.
Someone like you.
On a typical Friday night I am
On a Friday night African drumbeat takes control of my heart, but, in reality, I'm doing everything possible to ruin marriages- luring my mates- almost all of whom are married with kids- to a night out.
Or writing secularist article.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Once an ex sent me intimate picture of her with another guy, I forwarded it to her dad.
You should message me if
You're interested and not a Right wing Richard.
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