torlief
39 Albany, United States
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My self-summary
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dearest okc ocean,
oh how the fog and mist of your cryptic might can obscure the plotted course. yet sometimes a beacon shines through and the rocks are avoided as the harbor or the open sea presents its beauty and magic. you do not make it easy for vessels to have real genuine contact here, passing each other in the digital murk. but it is worth the waves tossing us about... knowing that in these waters are kindred spirits.
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What I’m doing with my life
treating every day like its my first and last
I’m really good at
making beds
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
the bluest eye, the road
the decalogue, deadman
democracy now, GoT
john fahey, tinariwen
saag paneer, garlic
The six things I could never do without
hard meaningful work
trusting vulnerable friendships
engaging critical discussions
the care of plants and animals
sound waves carrying the channeled godhead
love of the human condition
I spend a lot of time thinking about
corrupted masculinity and what it actually means to be a gentle-man
building, fixing & improving
intersectional feminism
balancing accountability with empathy
how to squeeze more life out of living
On a typical Friday night I am
defying space time
You should message me if
perhaps we can be friends...and maybe some of us can be lovers. or at the very least go on fun dates. the world is wild and full of wonder. holding hands during the storms and sunsets is what makes it all worth while.

and if you are ok with me being in a committed, loving relationship with gurglebox. she is the best, but don't worry, it is not a competition.

cheers.
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