toseekwithin
37 Morganton, United States
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My self-summary
"We are all mysteries to each other, and too often, strangers to ourselves."

I'm passionate, sensitive, driven, and curious. I love being out in nature, creating art, and good conversation.

I'm an introvert, but I like exploring new places and hanging out with friends in small groups. I prefer staying busy and having a sense of accomplishment. I'm also cool though with lounging and Netflix in moderation.

Laundry is my Zen. I know it sounds silly. there's something about it that's really peaceful and comforting.

When I'm not working, I try to spend some time doing something creative. Lately that means either taking pictures, or trying to skillfully convince characters within a story to stick to the plot.

I think it's important to try to help others when you can. I believe compassion and empathy are the gateways to living a fulfilling life.
What I’m doing with my life
I spend most of my time working, or creating art. In my downtime, I'm either laughing my ass off from a good comedy like Life Aquatic, or romancing a bowl of ice cream while watching "You've got Mail". Documentaries are good too, well some of them at least.
I’m really good at
problem solving, being a "good listener", seeing the metaphor, domestic servitude, psychology.
The first things people usually notice about me
My elven features, and my eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I read almost every night. It would take me too long to list all of my favorites but here are a few that stood out among the rest.

Books: Smoke and Mirrors, Ready Player One, Nightmares and Dreamscapes, The Handmaid's Tale, House of Leaves, 777, Way Of The Peaceful Warrior, Illusions, Swan Song, They Thirst, The Books of Magic, Ghost Story, Enders Game,

Movies: What the Bleep Do We Know, Pi, Waking Life, The Girl With The Dragon Tattoo, Shortbus, Eternal Sunshine of The Spotless Mind, Sweethearts, The Journey of The Wrong Eyed Jesus, Cloud Atlas, Gattica, Equilibrium, Dead Poets Society, What Dreams May Come,

Music: Tool, Tori Amos, Lamb, Portishead, Bjork, Otis Redding, Alison Krauss, for more results check out this playlist
The six things I could never do without
close friends and good conversation,

Books,

Mystery,

Learning,

Art,

Music,

Ferns. No really ferns are great. There's a story here, ask me about it.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
power exchange, ferocity, folklore, AI, metaphysics, BDSM, philosophy, psychology, servitude, D/s, parallel dimensions, time travel, quantum physics, mind over matter, DIY, Game Design, Gardening, Compassion, FLR, Synchronicity, Magick, Creativity, Complexity, Chaos, and everything else..
On a typical Friday night I am
Working on photography projects, out with friends, or enjoying a good book.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
D/s is pretty important to me.

As a masochist, pain is a part of my "love language".

This seemed as good a place as any:

YouTube Vlog

Blog

Twitter
You should message me if
If This makes sense to you and you have similar views.

I'm looking for a lot of things. A friend, a lover, but not "friends with benefits".

Message me if we have a decent match rating, and or if you have a good story to tell.

If you think we might learn something from each other.

As far as dating goes, I want to meet someone that's interested in D/s and understands it's not just about kink. Someone that wants a partner and a companion, not just a maid / servant.

I'm in the process of writing a novel. I started in August of this year and I'm currently at 212k words. If you're a writer, and or participating in NaNoWriMo this year, definitely drop me a line and lets chat. I'm also doing a YouTube vlog series which is linked above so check that out for a glimpse into my life.
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