totaltje
31 Santa Rosa, United States
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My self-summary
Hey! I know that this site can get really crazy, so I'll go ahead and give you my situation. My wife and I are in an open relationship, so we aren't opposed to one another seeing other people. It's a little different, I know, and there's understandably a lot of misconceptions about open relationships. It doesn't mean, however, that I'm not genuinely interested in getting to know you.

As for me, I'm easy to get along with and like learning more about people. I'm a former college educator currently undergoing a major career pivot to the corporate world, where I'm currently moving up and hoping to establish myself.

To learn more about me, here is a brief list of the things I respect and value the most (in no particular order):
1. The value of the rule of law
2. Vacations, particularly to remote spots
3. Women, for putting up with all the crap you have to put up with from us men and from society at large
4. Honor. Being upfront and being upright. Everyone deserves to know their situation.
5. Chinese buffets
What I’m doing with my life
I was corrupting the youth of Athens, but now I'm supervising freight, running heavy machinery, and learning leadership skills. I'm moving towards a career in operations and logistics. Other than that, I'm plotting my next ideal hike, and I'm thinking about politics, science, economics, and nature.
I’m really good at
Being goofy and smart at the same time. I do not have kids, but several people have said that I'm the quintessential dad humor guy. Also, I'm really good in warrior prowess.
The first things people usually notice about me
Possibly how awesome my general demeanor is! No, just kidding. I have no clue, so I'll just go with my eyes or cool ass hair. Or maybe my butt. Yeah, let's go with that one.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love Nathanael West, Tolstoy, Dostoyevsky, and naturalism. As far as music is concerned, I'm a huge fan of music from 1960s to 1990s. After that, it gets hit and miss. 90s Alternative is awesome. I love me some TV too. Anything HBO tends to be very good. Films, well here's some I really like: No Country for Old Men, The Seventh Seal, Forrest Gump, Dr. Zhivago, anything Leone, and goofy movies like Dumb and Dumber, Pineapple Express, and Anchorman.
The six things I could never do without
There are lots of things I could never do without, but I do know air is probably at the top of the list. After that it would be love, land to hike around in, music, sports, and a pick one of Chinese buffet, Mexican, sushi, pizza, hamburgers and hotdogs, and fried seafood. Yes, I know how disgusting that sounds.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Life, death, and everything philosophical. Also, sports, which can be equally about life, death, and everything philosophical, or something like that. I also spend a lot of time wondering how the US got to an election cycle like the one we're currently witnessing and how, after it's over, none of us may live long enough to fully understand its full implications and consequences.
On a typical Friday night I am
Working actually. My "Friday night" is not until Sunday morning, as bizarre as that may seem.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
What do you want me to admit? I'll probably gladly and freely admit it. Just ask.
You should message me if
You're looking for someone that loves conversations about politics, social issues, or completely meaningless things over a beer or two. That or you're attractive.
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