80San Rafael, United States
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My self-summary
I am a healthy, fit, easy going, ,sensitive,caring,person who is a good listener with a sense of humor. I am an even tempered, optimistic person with minimal emotional baggage. I enjoy the out doors;hiking, biking. walking and being with nature. Working out and doing yoga to keep in shape is part of my weekly routine. I am a museum groupie, enjoy theater,movies,art shows,cultural events and an avid reader and world traveler. I am a member of a Reform Temple and lean towards Buddhism.
As a widower, I know the fulfillment of being in right relationship,the need for mutual trust and the energy that it takes to make it work. I am a home owner,enjoy gardening (Container, as I live on a steep hillside), financially secure and am a retired Licensed Clinical Social Worker.
What I’m doing with my life
Taking good care of myself.
I’m really good at
Listening and being kind
The first things people usually notice about me
No one has ever told me. You can be the first.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I am an avid reader,particularly historical novels. Recently read the Cloud Splitter by Russel Banks, The Tortilla Curtain by T.C. Boyle, The Help by Kathryn Stockett My all time favorite author is Barbara Kingsolver although I found her most recent book,The Lacuna, not quite as compelling as some of her other work.

I have an eclectic taste in music, Soft Rock, Jazz, Blues, Classical but not Rap.

For movies are generally prefer high drama i.e. I Am love, Brothers.

I enjoy eating and cooking simple meals. I like ethnic foods ( easy on the hot spices) and limit my red meat intake.
Six things I could never do without
My family ie. 2 sons, 3 grand children, a daughter-in-law and my sister
My hiking boots
My exercise and working out routines
My circle of friends
The hope that romance will return to be part of my life
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Being in the present moment.
On a typical Friday night I am
anticipating your contact.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
that I am not willing to admit my most private thing. Later, after we get to Know each other.
You should message me if
in your closet, you may have a pair of hiking boots or walking shoes in the corner. Is there a bicycle helmet or a gym bag hanging from a hook? In the pockets of your favorite jacket, is there a theater or movie stub, a catalog from the latest museum exhibition or perhaps, a travel brochure to some exotic land. Are there books on top of the shelf to be read and a special one waiting for a rainy night in front of the fire? Do I see another book lying there, perhaps a cook book, waiting for company to try out that new recipe. What about that form fitting new dress you bought, hoping to catch some guys eye? Are you a heart centered women with a good sense of humor, financially secure, attractive, affectionate, who,when the time is right, likes to hold hands, cuddle and responsive to a sensuous touch. Might your closet hold some of these items. Let's come out of the closet and find out.
The two of us