57 Richmond, United States
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My self-summary
Assuming any of this matters, I'm a poet, so I have a day job (doing science and philosophy), also do lots of music and photography, lived overseas many years, high energy, but at times, wrapped in big lebowski (the Dude) indolence, up for most anything, sex positive (is that a trick question?), physically very fit, have long bouts of kindness, often am known to cook relatively non-lethal meals (NLMs). These are recent photos, my real age and I've been in long term relationships for most of my life and I'm completely indifferent to monogamy/nonmongamy, whether I'm just involved with one person or not, simply don't care about most of the societal tropes associated with such things.
I’m really good at
1) overestimating how good I am at anything in particular
2) underestimating the truly humiliating and mortifying nature of on-line dating.
The first things people usually notice about me
that I'm kind or more prosaically, I'm tall, attractive/not attractive, etc
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I read a lot, I listen to and play music a lot, see movies a lot
love to talk about, discuss the world I'm living in

so, lots of favorites
The six things I could never do without
someone else's passport, (I'm an international spy)

dark energy (nothing like dark chocolate, but also a constituent element of the universe)

Coelecanthes (obviously)
that's all I got.........
On a typical Friday night I am
in a fetal position, drooling and rocking in front of my computer opened to an on-line dating site. "my precious, my precious...."
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I still count numbers on my fingers, I would use my toes but I lost the lot of them on K2......funny story.

or that it's cringe worthy when you see answers here like "well it wouldn't be private then would it?" or "I'll tell you later..." Puh-lease.

so little playfulness, creativity, courage, at the least, make it up!
You should message me if
if you're have (most of) your teeth, (or at least good dentures) aren't throwing gang signs (too obviously)
and if you're wicked creative, smart, kind
and unapologetically damaged (we all are or soon will be after being on this site) and the opposite of puritanical, I'm game

If you're not from the US or have spent some significant time abroad, that would help too, not decisive though.